Please help me im now desperate - and now sacked from my job

maria932

angeluk69 - £90 is to be re-connected and part of the arrears, that is the same with the gas and elec im in arrears big time with them.

Whits - its his life about re-joining the Army, i dont know if to stand by him anymore, at the moment i am confused and dont know where i stand as he told me when he was drunk that i was an embarressment to his life, this was because i could not get time off work to go to hs friends wedding. im working all hours i dont get time to put make-up on or do my hair. that is what he wants. im too fat for him even though im only a size 12-14.

I will find the links for you for the stories

Im really gratefull for the support you are giving me. I really do appreciate it and hope I can lend a hand when one of you need it. This means so much to me. Thank you

maria932

thanks Carriel

maria932

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Ill let you know the other ones I cant find the links at the mo

anniebooklover

Maria, I can't offer you any advice, there are far better qualified people here than I. I am a newbie myself but you will find that everyone here is supportive and will do their best to help you.

I'm sorry that you are in the position that you are. Somehow hubby has to realise that he has to be part of the solution if you are going to get out of this mess. Do you have anyone to talk to about your situation? I would agree with the poster who said you should contact your local CCCS or Citizens Advice Bureau. The sooner the debt stops piling up the better you will feel.

Take care of yourself, if only for your daughter's sake.

Annie x

carriel_2

no worries hun, anything I can do to help, I will.

As for your partner, it might be time to call an end to it, it doesnt sound like he has any respect for you hun. They CANNOT take your little girl away from you, you are a fantastic mother & are doing everything you can for her.

Your past is none of their business & has no bearing at all on you as a mother.
Heres a hug(((((((((maria)))))))))) cause I think you need one. You'll get through this.

I'm sorry I cannot help anymore with the financial side of things, as you can see i've not been great with money, but there are some fab people on here who will help you any way they can.

*zippy*

Hi Maria

I don't live far from you and have been to llantrisant today :hello:

I have just read through your thread and not able to add to the great advice you have been given, but just wanted to send a (((hug)))

Please check the entitled to website hopefullly you can claim something.

You sound like a great mother working hard for your DD. How can people be so nasty and cruel speaking to you like that. Good on you for rising above it.

I have just looked in my dd's cuboard for some outgrown uniform, but must have given it away or would have happily sent it to you. I can't think of any local help, except to perhaps ask the school, alot of parents do seem to donate the outgrown clothes to the school because of the badges they are no use to anyone else.

Best wishes zippy x

maria932

Sometimes Carriel, all you need is some-one to be there for you, someone you can chat to, (im crying) I dont think i have had this much support from anyone in along time.

It helps just to get it of my chest, and everyone has been so helpfull so far, I just wish I had a family who could support me like you have al done tonight. My life is a mess and all I have wanted is some-one to understand me, to talk to, and the others things like to be loved and be wanted, things i have never had before. I know I have gone of the subject a bit. I needed to tell you all that im gratefull and how much it means to me.
Yes you probably are thinking im screwed up a bit, but i probably i am, maybe cause i have never got over what happened. maybe i never will. i dont know

stepp

Is your husband working? If not why doesnt he get up off his fat lazy !!!!!! and get a job to help you.

You sound like your worrying yourself silly....is your OH actually as worried as you?

Whits

Without knowing any details about what happened to you, I don't think it's at all fair to throw it in your face, you didn't ask for it:mad:

The only thing you are doing wrong is putting up with your husbands selfish attitude:mad: :mad: :mad:

My personal opinion is that everyone on here struggles with money, why should be persecuted

You've done the hardest bit, you've admitted there are problems but you know all of us are to listen and when you're back on track, we'll be getting advice from you:beer:

And by the way, if a size 12-14 is fat then tell him to F-OFF:p

maria932

no he is not working, he is looking but not putting much of an effort in, no he dont care, he throws most of the bills away before i even see them and i dig them out of the bin