How do I approach the money issue...

jakem_2

Thankyou Tropez for your nice words, but such is life, it didnt work out, maybe part of me expected too much, but I know deep down I didnt.
I wish him well, and in one way I want him to meet a grabbing woman, who is lazy, sits on her backside all day, and thinks only of bherself, and maybe he will realise what he messed up.

I do believe that marriage is a partnership, and you both have to give and take, but when one takes all the time, and very rarely gives, then you have a problem, but in your case, one gives, and one wont take lol

Like I said earlier you wont take each other for granted, and both of you deserve each other.

BTW, have you got a brother?....or Uncle..... :whistle: ;)

Tropez

jakem wrote: »

Thankyou Tropez for your nice words, but such is life, it didnt work out, maybe part of me expected too much, but I know deep down I didnt.
I wish him well, and in one way I want him to meet a grabbing woman, who is lazy, sits on her backside all day, and thinks only of bherself, and maybe he will realise what he messed up.

I do believe that marriage is a partnership, and you both have to give and take, but when one takes all the time, and very rarely gives, then you have a problem, but in your case, one gives, and one wont take lol

Like I said earlier you wont take each other for granted, and both of you deserve each other.

BTW, have you got a brother?....or Uncle..... :whistle: ;)

I do have a brother but he's stuffed up two marriages already and I wouldn't introduce him to anyone!

I know it seems like a crazy notion in this day and age but I still believe there is a right person out there for everyone, sometimes we just need a little luck in meeting them so I wish you that luck. :beer:

Primrose

I hope your discussion on Sunday works out OK. You both sound as if you've got great strength of character and the desire to do the right thing by each other, treating each other fairly. These are traits that will help hold your relationship together in the future when the ride gets rocky as it will undoubtedly do at some point or other. (It does for all of us, even in strong relationships). Just value each other for the respective strengths you each bring to your relationship. The barometer will always swing from one side to the other and the scales will never balance 100%.