BOB'S CUNNING PLAN 2- 'Cos the other one failed and i blame Baldrick

taxi73

So glad you're feeling much more positive .It is easy to lose sight of our relationships during everything else that goes on in life.Now you have a block to build on which is a great start..
perhaps you both need a little break sometimes just for you two...DH and I are planning relaxing us time as well x

boredofbeingathome

taxi73 wrote: »

So glad you're feeling much more positive .It is easy to lose sight of our relationships during everything else that goes on in life.Now you have a block to build on which is a great start..
perhaps you both need a little break sometimes just for you two...DH and I are planning relaxing us time as well x

You are right- it was a bit weird at first, a bit like the first time you go out after a baby is born and all you can do is talk about the baby. But we soon got used to just enjoying ourselves and being on our own timescale rather than someone else's. Or even thinking about having to cook a meal- that was the best bit:D Especially when someone else cleared up afterwards:D

Hope you both manage a break soon.

taxi73

don't know when we'll manage one yet but def on the agenda.

redsquirrel80

Oh wow Bob, it sounds like such a big step forward. I'm really pleased for you

boredofbeingathome

taxi73 wrote: »

don't know when we'll manage one yet but def on the agenda.

I can imagine it will be hard to fit in- but i reckon go with the flow and have the money aside to book it when the perfick moment appears:D

boredofbeingathome

redsquirrel80 wrote: »

Oh wow Bob, it sounds like such a big step forward. I'm really pleased for you

Thanks- its been a long time coming,but i feel like the man on the moon- well a knackered version of him, but still:rotfl::rotfl:

taxi73

thats the plan BOB...I'll know when I feel ok to go

boredofbeingathome

Well on the 11th- nearly a month ago- i was due a refund from credit expert. To date no monies has gone into any account at all. So rang and they have put a wrong digit on the card So am on hold waiting to get my dosh. Grrr.

Otherwise main bank account not as bad as it could be- Mr.B's is now slowly going down.
My accounts are good But i have no doubt at some point i will have to start putting in cash to joint as they charge for overdraft. I have another 0% deal on a card i was going to close down. It only has a £700 limit- so not quite sure whether to bother with it or not. I think i may just close it down and get rid of it.

I did look at one where i could super balance transfer, but as Mr.B is with the companies that do that- i don't think i will be accepted Hmm decisions, decisions.

Oh and family tax credits have now stopped- luckily we don't have to pay back any money - Phew. As what little we are due, is covering any overpayment. And now DD2 has left college no family allowance either. So as that used to go into main account- he will have to budget a bit better

And another day of the shred completed- and i can actually feel some muscles- good grief. They haven't been seen or felt for a few years.

Housework also calls- the house once again looks like it has been burgled. Ironing all over the place.

So i will be kept out of mischief for a while.

Have a good day Bob x

taxi73

don't envy you the ironing...hate that job....as you say will keep you out of trouble for a while...lol
hope you get your money back soon

boredofbeingathome

It would keep me out of trouble Taxi if i stopped lurking and reading on diaries..lol.