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MSE Parents Club Part 12

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  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    Susan if a professional person said the F word in front of Molly I'd make a complaint about it. Maybe a couple of complaints about her will cause at a minimum a change in the HO looking after Beenie?
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  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    Fitzio wrote: »
    I bet Beenie would be more likely to clean her house for you than the Queen, Susan! I am really disgusted that the HO swore in front of Alice. I don't think she should be swearing in front of anyone when she is working but in front of a child is completely inapporpriate!

    :D I did sweep the floors mind, there was cat sized lumps of dog hairballs everywhere and i wondered if they might irritate Alice's poorly cough :A

    And i think i said arsey in front of Alice, sorry :o:A:p
  • aless02
    aless02 Posts: 5,119 Forumite
    ooooo, i hope u make another formal complaint, beenie! I can't believe she swore!! Much less in front of a 3 year old. Phone the supervisor tomorrow. She deserves to be fired. Wonder if having Susan write a letter saying she witnessed her outrageous benavior would help.
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  • jillie1974
    jillie1974 Posts: 6,997 Forumite
    Beenie- that HO sounds crap. i'd be ringing and making a complaint about her attitude and swearing while working.
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  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    Sugar the HO's line manager never got back to me and i couldn't get hold of her when i rang back so i'm thinking of composing a nice (long) letter? Maybe that would come across better cos i tend to go off on tangents and lose track of my original point?
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    She ran next door to do some volume adjusting (so she says) and when she ran back in she left the door open and was like well what can you hear now. I said well that dog that's barking... So she got up to close the door and said wish that fkin dog would shut up (or something along those lines) I didn't even realise she'd slipped a swearword in there til Susan said but relaying it back in my head, she totally did. We didn't mention it at the time though and she'll totally deny it.
  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
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    BeenieCat wrote: »
    :D I did sweep the floors mind, there was cat sized lumps of dog hairballs everywhere and i wondered if they might irritate Alice's poorly cough :A
    Her cough mainly seems to come on when she's told to do something she doesn't want to do now.
    BeenieCat wrote: »
    And i think i said arsey in front of Alice, sorry :o:A:p
    I didn't notice so you got away with it. "Arsey" isn't quite at the same level anyway. And it's different when someone who is working does something like that - if you are working with the public, you are in professional mode and should not do that sort of thing.
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
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  • got-it-spend-it
    got-it-spend-it Posts: 5,016 Forumite
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    3onitsway wrote: »
    Caz & I will be in Liverpool on Thursday if you're about.

    Are you not here this weekend anyway?





    One more week at the training centre, graduation Friday. Then a week off, followed by 10 weeks shadowing a real policeman at his station.


    Woooohooooo Amber :T:T
    (Who is the oldest gummy baby now?)

    Yippee for your OH! I'm very pleased to hear that he passed. I bet he will love being out on shift.

    Is Henry the oldest gummy baby? He's seven months, two weeks.



    Susan and Beenie- I would certainly put in a complaint about the HO swearing. That is totally unprofessional, and I would question that if she feels that is appropriate behaviour then she shouldn't be in a position to judge other people on what is and isn't antisocial behaviour.


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  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
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    SugarSpun wrote: »
    Susan if a professional person said the F word in front of Molly I'd make a complaint about it. Maybe a couple of complaints about her will cause at a minimum a change in the HO looking after Beenie?
    I agree and I'm currently pondering about how best to put things. I'm thinking I should complain direct myself about the swearing and put my other thoughts (like about her attitude etc.) in writing and pass on to Beenie so she can use it support of her own complaints about the housing officer.
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
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    "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die"
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    Sorry, can't catch up now, will in a bit, really rude I know. But I've spent the day in A&E.
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
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