MSE Parents Club Part 12

Glamazon

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

I am very :mad: and :eek: and and



Some pr1ck at work today (I have been out on site all day) told me that if I didn't have a job in September then at least I would be able to stay at home and be a 'proper mum'

Actually, I am mostly at the moment, what a terrible, hurtful thing to say.

Aw hun! Of course you are a proper mum. What a ridiculous comment to make. If you aren't then neither am I - if he said that to me he'd currently be a fireball that was being melted down to a pair of Size 4's
Ignore the pill0ck!

My_Fathers_Daughter

I feel like taking my gorgeous little boy who adores his mummy back to work with me and screaming 'DOES THIS BOY LOOK LIKE I AM NOT A PROPER MUMMY'

jillie1974

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

I am very :mad: and :eek: and and



Some pr1ck at work today (I have been out on site all day) told me that if I didn't have a job in September then at least I would be able to stay at home and be a 'proper mum'

Actually, I am mostly at the moment, what a terrible, hurtful thing to say.

what an utter nob head

Fitzio

My MIL is pretty good. She will be coming to stay once a week when I go back to work to look after Holly for 1 day. I hope our relationship doesn't deteriorate when she is staying overnight!! Obviously some things annoy me but everyone is different and has different ways, so I just learn to pick my battles and let other stuff go.

I feel I can trust her to look after Holly and generally follow my wishes, and I feel more comfortable speaking up if I don't want her to do something, than I do with my own mum. The difference is, she has enough respect for me and DH to know that if we decide to do something, we are not total dafties, and we will have made an educated decision, whether it is what she would do or not.

With my mum, if it's not what she did, then it's clearly wrong, I am a total imbecile and will be mocked and laughed at, and she will have forgotten the whole conversation 5 mins later and continue to do whatever she wants anyway! She did tell me that when Holly is in her house, she will do whatever she wants with her. Hence why she is not looking after her 1 day a week. She will have her for a few hours though as I don't want to cut her out completely. She does love being with Holly. But I don't want her having too much influence in her life or mine!

Holly just woke up from her nap and her wet nappy has leaked all over her cot. Grrrrr. Again, it's a new Active Fit nappy!! Can't be coincidence surely? She only had it on for about 3 hours as I changed it just after lunch.

redmel1621

MFD - That is a really hurtful thing to say. Did you give them a sharp smack in the mouth? Just make sure you don't listen to them, you know you are a 'proper mum'.

I really need to know where SS is looking at now, seeing as 3 is only about 10mins away from me:)

jillie1974

match won!!! 70 - 68 wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!

workinmummy

Hugs to MFD

The words "Some bloke" says it all.

I've had that numerous times from my boss. He is an complete !!! too. With a wife who has never worked because she neither had to or wanted too. So has no idea of the wrath that such comments can conjure, or didn't until recently

aless02

Watching the tennis, too. Match point, eek!

Ss, i hope u guys can move back here if that's what u guy want. I'm sure it's really hard for neither one of u to be in ur home country.

MILs...mine's okayish. She does tend to irritate me, but luckily nothing yet baby-related. I think i may resent her a tiny, tiny, tiny bit because she's not my mother . (eta: b'c finn never got to meet her)

Can't believe the tennis finished while i was writing this! Wonder what the pressies are.

Glamazon

Fitzio - my sister had the exact same problem with those Active Fits!
The rash is going now we are back on the Baby Dry's so I am definitely saying it was them that caused it! Got a £6 voucher from pampers yesterday which was nice!

kindofagilr

workinmummy wrote: »

Can't speak for MFD, but I too hate line dried towels. Much prefer them from the dryer, they come out much softer for my ever so tender sensitive skin

Ah well I dont have a dryer lol so maybe thats why lol