I am a Bridezilla and my confession is....

fly_dragon_fly

hey

dolly knows about the ebay listing and has said that all the brides are posting all over the net and there is another ebay thing she just said its a dog eat dog world out there.

i'm not holding a gun to anyones head they dont have to vote for me

and i've deleted the ebay listing to please anyone who its upset

and 10 of the accounts where fake and have been deleted from the other contestant so facebook thought they where cheating too. x

and i'm also gonna shut up about it now i promise

sorry for going wedding crazy never had a chance to win a comp

thanks all for voting x

lindaatno9

fly_dragon_fly wrote: »

hey

dolly knows about the ebay listing and has said that all the brides are posting all over the net and there is another ebay thing she just said its a dog eat dog world out there.


x

Because it's all good exposure for her.

Anyway, I wasn't a bridezilla, but I've met a few mumzillas!!

LadyMorticia

lindaatno9 wrote: »

Because it's all good exposure for her.

Anyway, I wasn't a bridezilla, but I've met a few mumzillas!!

My MIL2B is a mumzilla...to the point where it's hard to get a say in anything! :eek:

bubbles0169

frannyann wrote: »

I am a Bridezilla because......................

i thought you were confessing something in invisable ink

im on the lappy so trying to highlight on here is not easy

i was getting frustrated cos it wouldnt highlight

i then saw your post title an thought 'oh shes just stating the thread'

i am definitaly blonde:rotfl:

frannyann

bubbles0169 wrote: »

i thought you were confessing something in invisable ink

im on the lappy so trying to highlight on here is not easy

i was getting frustrated cos it wouldnt highlight

i then saw your post title an thought 'oh shes just stating the thread'

i am definitaly blonde:rotfl:

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Alyssa_C_2

I am A Bridezilla because.....

My sister is driving me CRAZY!!!! One of my bridemaids is travelling (still! she left 4 days after we got engaged so I suppose I can let her off) so we can't look at bridesmaid dresses til she's back, however, darling sister (:mad:) keeps asking me about dresses and thinks she's found 'her' dress! We haven't looked yet! ARGH!!!!

greenmoneysaver_2

I am a BZ,

There has been a mistake with prices on the gift list. 2 candlebras wrongly priced at £30 instead of £100 (they were my 1 extravagance. . .).

Gift list opened today and I have bought them, and got a £15 voucher off for next shop as well, so only £45 for both instead of £200!

[Deleted User]

My word!

I'm beginning to plan for my (second) wedding and I am actually quite shocked by some comments on this thread.

Take a deep breath.... and remember why you are getting married. It's because you love this person so much that you cannot imagine not being with them for the next 50 years or more. Relax.

Anything else is pretty irrelevant, don't you feel?

Colour schemes, mum's hat, bridesmaids glasses(!), partners invites, reception themes etc etc, all this is just additional dressing and paraphernalia.

I did the big(ish) full white wedding and the extent of your trimmings will guarantee you nothing but stress - please remember the person you want to be with and your relationship with them is all that counts.

Who cares if the flowers are slightly the wrong shade of pink? If the photos show your uncle Trev looking pishhed? If your bridesmaid trips over your train and grazes her knee? It will NOT ruin your life for evermore - but getting so stressed and riled that you become a different person and possibly alienate your fiance, your family and friends could do just that.

I've been seriously ill in the years between my first marriage and my upcoming second (which we might get around to next year!) and the one thing I've learnt is that material stuff (the clothes, flowers etc) is just tat in the end. The important things are the people around you and the love you share and that's all that is of any worrh.

Here endeth Aunty Jools's sermon - please let the BZ ranting resume.

shellsuit

joolzred wrote: »

My word!

I'm beginning to plan for my (second) wedding and I am actually quite shocked by some comments on this thread.

Take a deep breath.... and remember why you are getting married. It's because you love this person so much that you cannot imagine not being with them for the next 50 years or more. Relax.

Anything else is pretty irrelevant, don't you feel?

Colour schemes, mum's hat, bridesmaids glasses(!), partners invites, reception themes etc etc, all this is just additional dressing and paraphernalia.

I did the big(ish) full white wedding and the extent of your trimmings will guarantee you nothing but stress - please remember the person you want to be with and your relationship with them is all that counts.

Who cares if the flowers are slightly the wrong shade of pink? If the photos show your uncle Trev looking pishhed? If your bridesmaid trips over your train and grazes her knee? It will NOT ruin your life for evermore - but getting so stressed and riled that you become a different person and possibly alienate your fiance, your family and friends could do just that.

I've been seriously ill in the years between my first marriage and my upcoming second (which we might get around to next year!) and the one thing I've learnt is that material stuff (the clothes, flowers etc) is just tat in the end. The important things are the people around you and the love you share and that's all that is of any worrh.

Here endeth Aunty Jools's sermon - please let the BZ ranting resume.

How can you say all that when you've done it yourself?

If you hadn't split with your husband, you wouldn't say what you had, so that is really unfair.

[Deleted User]

shellsuit wrote: »

How can you say all that when you've done it yourself?

If you hadn't split with your husband, you wouldn't say what you had, so that is really unfair.

Because in the end it is *the relationship* and the vows of marriage and not the wedding trimmings that count. I held the view when I got married and had to rein in certain excesses & expectations from others then.

Of course if I was still married to my first husband (and it wasn't a mistake, I love him dearly, but after a long time trying certain issues led to an amicable parting) I might not be posting in here specifically but I'd still be telling you the same thing if I could!

All I'm advising is that the *focus* of your wedding day should be the lovely person you want to be with for ever, and sharing that day with the people you hold dear. Shades of violet or designs of invites, or the differences between tablecloths actually becaome amazingly unimportant 5,10,20 (god willing) 50 years after the event.

Have a happy wedding day everyone