MSE Pregnancy Club 18

MERFE

morning peeps x

Tinks you had me scared last night, glad everything is ok and they have thoroughly checked you over. Hope you are getting plenty of rest now x

I've realised I need to slow down already, its so hard as I still feel I can rush about but later in the day get pains in my foof if I do. Will need to start leaving earlier for the school run esp the 3pm pick up, DD door has been open the last 3 days I've picked her up.

It's aquanatal tonight but I'm not sure I can be bothered with the drive, I feel shattered from doing all my hours this week and the kids getting me up at 5:30 grrr. I think I might just try to go for a swim tomorrow instead.

We had elastics and ankle skips when I was younger but the absolute best thing was a lengh of washing line for skipping in the road with. God forbid children would play in the road nowadays - the car drivers would go mad, having to slow down and actually watch where they are going. DD has an ankle skip but I use it more than she does, its still fun now lol.

sammy_kaye18

Morning all

Well Im still here - no queue jumping again Im afraid.

Had yet more grief from OH yesterday - apparently Im now untrustworthy and a liar - exactly what you want to hear when your 14 days from your due date. He came home last night and said exactly 0 words to me. And over what might you ask - a bloody phone bill!

He had a phone call saying his bill was £54 - to which i replied it wasnt as I'd rung them the day before and was told £18.60 which I'd paid the same day and had the receipt to prove it (this was purposely left on the sofa in case there was any doubt this morning in clear view for him to see) - so queue me stressing and sending boyfriend a text saying I'd sort it. Got irrate then becasue no bu**er at t mobile was answering the phones so ended up in tears to which i had a helpful reply text from boyfriend of 'dont cry you d*ck.Just sort it'. So yet more screaming/shouting/crying - my poor mother in law must of thought I was demented yesterday.

So found out and told him he'd gone £15 over his allowances, he rang yesterday afternoon then after I'd gotten through adn said well thats wrong, he didnt trust me, i was a liar, couldnt believe a word i said, if i was struggling to pay bills etc jsut to ask him - he left me £100 short for rent this month becasue he didnt have the money - so where in gods name was he going to get the money from?? :mad::mad::mad: - so re rang t mobile and spoke to a nice man who called me down no end - gave me the mobile numbers that had been called most (between 3 numbers he had used £9!) so then re rang boyfriend and told him which i think put him in his place and he basically said 'oh right, ok then, ill have to charge my work mobile up, ok then, bye'. before coming home at 6.30 and not talking to me.

No idea if he could sense how annoyed I was still or he was just being cautious because I was fuming earlier in the day. He's not said a word to me at all this morning either though and just left for work at which point i burst into tears. Really not the time to be so stressed! he's not the type to say sorry though and I sure as hell ain't!

Trying to chill though - treating myself to a nice new haircut before bump comes along so will be getting that done later - funny feeling boyfriend might ring or text to ask about how his things on Ebay are selling even though he's checked them this morning. Part of me is hoping he does phone/text but highly doubt it.

Sorry needed a rant.

x

xmaslolly76

Hugs sammy men can be such pigs sometimes let him flaming sulk and dont get stressed out your right he's wrong end of he will come round eventually men dont like it when they are proved wrong. He was well out of order calling you a liar though you were alot more accomodating than i would have been i would have needed restraining if he had spoken to me like that but then i have a fowl temper anyway and i like a dog with a bone if i know im right. Hope today is better for you :-)

Merfe take it easy you dont want to do yourself in. The foof pains should ease a little soon it probably just your ligaments stretching and relaxing mine are agony at the moment especially in the morning but seem to ease once i get moving again :-)

slm6002

sammy try not to let it get to you - i know easier said than done - my OH is like yours and often blames me for things he has done or things gone wrong. He has also taken back some of the money he gives me each month as he has run out - only got paid on 15th - which we will leave me short for the bills.

enjoy your haircut and perhaps treat yourself to a choccy bar, i find it normally helps but that could be why i am the size i am!

bexta

Redmel - my mum did that too, with the ball and the rope. Elastics were fun too, and skipping with a giant rope!

Tinks, sounds like a scary time. Glad things were ok though, take it easy today!

Sammy, what a PITA of your OH t be like that. You don't need the extra stress of him being like that, hope he behaves himself today

If I ever want to weird OH out, I just say I was a fetus when he joined the army (he's 17 and a bit years older). Wasn't intentionally going for an older bloke, just met someone who I had loads in common with and could yammer on for hours with.

rach

shelly - i am struggling too and I don't have a little one. I also commute and I think that makes it a lot worse!

tinks - hope it's all ok today

has anyone heard from bufger? is their scan today?

Me and DH also had a row last night, well actually he had a row with me...wasn't sure what I was meant to have done, apparently I'd taken over when he was going to cook dinner or something! He did come in and apologise later and say he feels v stressed (hasn't heard whether he's got a second interview for the job yet so it could be that). I slept in the spare room last night anyway, which was planned as I'm not at work today. Problem is I'm now up and he doesn't seem to be....not sure whether to go in and wake him or not as door is closed and he was shattered but he should be half way to work by now and if he doesn't leave soon he won't get there til 1030!

hazzie123

Jeez I feel like poo today,I've had a splitting headache since 4 this morning but with having to have Tinzaparin injections I can only take paracetamol which is pants.I've also swelled up like a ballon,my ankles look like they have little fat creases when I bend my feet towards me.I can't get my ring off either and I have a puffy face.I have a midwife appointment at lunchtime for another sweep so hopefully that will set things off.

Hope all goes well Cafc you Jammy bugga getting started off

BudgetBlonde

Morning all.
Hugs to those whose OHs are being a PINA. I'm lucky that mine's pretty good although he IS a man

Labour vibes for Cafc, today's the day! :j

I think I'm now #41 on the list not including the bolds. I'm in double figures today 99 days to go! The time seems to be dragging painfully slowly and it doesn't help that I won't be back in my own house for at least another 4 weeks. Then I know I have all the cleaning and painting to do, literally top to bottom as we have had so much work done nearly every room will be bare plaster and no carpets. And there has been so much extra work it's eaten up my 20% contingency money already so I might have to dip into baby's furniture fund to buy curtains and paint. :eek:

Still, on the bright side my mat leave is sorted, baby is getting strong and healthy and I managed to only need one wee in the night so feel pretty rested! And it's nearly the weekend yay! :T

xmaslolly76

Well im off to a good start today i have managed to wipe all my woodwork down icluding the skirting boards finally it had an inch of dust on it ewwww i hate spindle banisters they look good but they are !!!!!! to keep clean with sticky little fingers everywhere. I just have the doors to clean down now and some general tidying up and a couple of loads of washing not much in the big scheme of things i wonder if i will manage to get it all done. The kids go to their dads tomorrow so i have two nights of peace and quiet and i'm going to the zoo on saturday with bubs and a picnic i hope the weather is nice i think he will love the animals :-)

pigpen

LilacPixie wrote: »

Pigpen - your OH must be same age as me give or take a few months. My OH is 3 years yonger and thats weird enough. oh i remember this song i was in 3rd year and I'm thinking hell i was in Ibiza.

He is 29 next month.. ... possibly just a few days before sproggit arrives!

His birthday is a week after DD1's.. she will be 16.. and 2 weeks before DD2's whe will be 13.. so we are hoping Squeak arrives the 19th then there will be exactly 1 week between everyones birthdays!!! Highly unlikely to happen but would be nice!

Baby feel like he is engaging.. and appears to be making the very most of the extra little bit of leg room.. I have been in agony for 2 days.. not to mention that I am running on painkillers for my ear ache!

Xmas.. I hate spindles too!!!