From Trash to Cash: the Dribbling never ends

moneymabel

I agree with Babymoo. If you have an OH why not tell the friend that OH was annoyed that another bloke was buying you jewellery but you told him that the friend was no danger as you only saw him as a friend...or something like that anyway?!

Mrs_Money

I'm just listing a few items on Ebay and have noticed a new message at the side of the page "From 2 June 2010 all private sellers will be limted to 100 free auction-style listings per month".
probably better this way - we all know where we are then and (hopefully) Ebay won't be accusing us of being businesses when we're not!

evenstarcrafty

Some men wont take no for an answer
When I was taking dog for a walk I kept bumping into this man, Ive known him all my life and he is married, anyway I would walk and chat being friendly, then I realised I wasnt bumping into him he was watching, as he lives near walk, for times I was going, and one time I seen him lurking in bushes waiting....creeped me out
Then he started saying things which were inapropriate
Ended up he gave me a note, declaring undying love........help
Had to change dog walking route to avoid him...my friends thought it was funny but I was well crept out
Tell him straight, dont try to spare his feeling or he wont think you mean it, just say you dont think of him in that way and you will have to cool off friendship if he doesnt get the message

babymoo

I don't envy either of you. luckily all the blokes in my life have always known where they stand and never tried to become anything more.

munchki

evening all...

Not even read yet, so will go back and read shortly........

Well, I have had a change of heart about the date tonight and have bowed out for the moment. One thing life has drilled into my head the past 15 months is to go with your gut instinct as it is rarely wrong. There is something, I cant put my finger on it, but it just slightly does not feel right, and for at least right now, I feel it is the right decision for me. Seems so strange me putting me first, not something I would have ever done before. Yet another lesson learned about my life lol

Right off to catch up on the thread, have my son and his gf here, going to watch dvd's and have pizza tonight........great fun!! xx

babymoo

Awww munchki, fingers crossed its just nerves and it turns out all ok xx

munchki

it is very mutual on both sides, it involves fear and yes nerves. I think we scared each other as it just felt so right. easier to run away from each other now. time will tell what happens, and when and if it is right it will happen.....

jo70mo

munchki - if it is right then ducking out of tonight won't matter. If it doesn't feel right then you know you are doing the right thing. The evening you have planned sounds fun and relaxing.
after all you've been through you do right to take some time and not rush into things.
enjoy the pizza. we are off for a meal out with DHs auntie who is up from cornwall.
DDfell asleep about an hour ago and I had to wake her up poor thing. she is so grumpy too.
Jo x

munchki

thank you Jo, I just wish I had some words of wisdom for him as well on fear, relationships, friendship etc......sounds daft I know. Funny how things that feel so right are and can be so scary!

moneymabel

I think thats good Munchki-you've both got the sense to take it slow..I reckon your well suited!!...remember i do wedding jewellery.....;-)

Just got back from the vet with puppy for her first jab,she was very well behaved apart from leaving the vet a little brown gift on his table (snigger)

Thats me £44 lighter though :-(