Learn to control money but do not allow it to control you

Ellidee

FW saw this and thought you might like it !

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3470389

savingwannabe

Firewalker I hope your journey and day improve I am sure you will turn the situation around.

Happytobedebtfree I liked your post!

I have been ill all night so I am not going in this morning but will this afternoon. I dont care that i was ill i will see trees, gardens, breathe fresh air on my journey into work and then enjoy what I am doing. Having a positive attitude is the key.I am lucky i have a chronic illness not one that is terminal well not for a few years I hope!!!!

My doctors think I am amazing because I try to overcome everything. It is hard at times but there are so many inspiring people here to keep us going. Timshel, we have a choice in our actions and being positive is more fun anyway. Ani continue to enjoy the good things you never know how your life can change for the better. Have you seen It's a Wonderful Life? Download it Today!!!!!

Ellidee

For you sw http://www.youtube.com/colinvearncombe#p/a/u/0/VNNTKZ4hEyw

savingwannabe

Thank you!!! OOOOld memories. Crumbs. Right i am going to have a half hour nap and then go to work. [STRIKE]I promise to finish all the admin work for my open evening next week. If i write it down I shall have to do it! [/STRIKE] Edit - it is my day off. I am being assertive and not going into work (unusual for me!)and will instead have a restful day doing laundry, shopping for cheery foods now that I have rested.

Sorry dear Firewalker for posting nonsense on your thread. Everyone have a good day!

Happytogetdebtfree

Thank you savingwannabe it was my first go at posting something with meaning if you see what i mean its a wonderful life is a lovely film and great reflection.... i also like hypnos analysis is paralysis i must root some of my books particulalry ones by mike dooley he has some great messages this is one of his quotes from the universe ""do you think the universe ultimatley rewards those that live in poverty? do you think those who toil in sweat from paycheck to paycheck are more likely to inherit the kingdom from those who work in ivory towers? does the universe take special notice of sacrifices ? is it pleased when some put the needs of others before there own? does the universe favour those who strive to live spiritual lives? actually honey the universe doesnt give a flying yahoooo it loves you no matter what rules you make up... talk about unconditional".... i really enjoy the notes somedays they are god sends it gives you the boost you sometimes need ... happy wednesday.....xx

Firewalker

Ellidee wrote: »

FW saw this and thought you might like it !

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/3470389

Thanks you for this. I'll partake without feeling guilty (have been waiting for the Aleph for sometime now).

FW

Firewalker

Tired! Have to go to bed - but thank you for all posts. They made me think.

Hypno, I agree with Tricia that we go through stages in our lives. But the 'analysis paralisis' is something I do loads of and dislike with passion. Have been trying to act more - and it is that symple. Just say, OK I have researched, analysed and planned this one. There is never good time, there is never safe option. I am doing - if I make a mistake it is an opportunity to learn. I will do after that differently. Sounds naff I know, but works.

SW, hope you are feelign better.

Ani, please don't give up; life is hard at the moment but it is going to get better - just don't give up.

Happytogetdebtfree, nice post.

Good night people and will speak soon.

Firewalker

Firewalker

Good day, my friends. I am not sure whether I'll be able to write later - apart from everything I am writing something here so need to do some work. Thing is I feel rather tired but this time I am not going to ask why. I know why; I have been traveling, not sleeping enough, going to the conference and writing other stuff. Too much!

On the positive side, I am in a really nice hotel and the conference in not that interesting (so I can go to my room and do some other work. When am I going to learn not to take too much on? To allow myself to focus? When am I going to loose this fear that I am missing something important? It only makes us slide on the surface of life. Loads of growing still needs to be done.

Firewalker

hypno06

Firewalker wrote: »

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Hypno, I agree with Tricia that we go through stages in our lives. But the 'analysis paralisis' is something I do loads of and dislike with passion. Have been trying to act more - and it is that symple. Just say, OK I have researched, analysed and planned this one. There is never good time, there is never safe option. I am doing - if I make a mistake it is an opportunity to learn. I will do after that differently. Sounds naff I know, but works.

I do try and tell myself "what is the absolute WORST that can happen as a result of my actions?"......and the truth is, that even the worst is nothing that cannot be overcome, either by myself or others it might impact on.

So....I really should just "do".......:o

But like you, loads of growing still to be done!

savingwannabe

Fw i am hypo so i probably didn't understand I think you need to rest a bit acutally a lot!!!!! Enjoy your time abroad find a new coffee shop and people watch or just read a book and chill. :kisses3::j