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Hypno's "just for today" diary of rediscovery.

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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    I certainly do...more so than after the LM Hypno, didn't think that was possible
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    sallyx wrote: »
    I certainly do...more so than after the LM Hypno, didn't think that was possible

    Tomorrow and Sunday are going to be impossible for you Sally :eek:
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    I know :eek: Ah well no pain no gain!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    True....you have done an excellent job sally and you will have a fab haul later in the year from it as a result :T
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Lets hope so...although I am watching Gardeners world and liking the idea of a cutting boarder so that I can grow lots of flowers and have fresh flowers for me and to give to friends :)
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    Why not? You look to have a good sized plot there so if you want a mixture of flowers and veggies you have no reason not to!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    I think I shall have 1 raised bed dedicated to flowers. B already has her little patch which she has decided to grow flowers in. Amazingly she has managed to grow anemone which everyone says are SO difficult to grown..they are beautiful!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    hypno06 wrote: »
    Re Naval gazing.....well, my husband has yet to tell me why he left, so I am still trying to come up with the answers. However much I want to say "forget it and move on", it isn't that simple. And of course a lot of things then overlap.....eating, and control, and self esteem, being just a few.

    :(

    :grouphug:

    It may be that he doesn't know. Or it may be that you came inbetween him and a big bike. Or he could be having a mid-life crisis and is currently chasing 16 year olds. Or it may be that it was nothing *anyone* "did" (you obviously think it was you :naughty: ) but that you just grew apart.

    The debt will not have helped, but there is probably nothing definite to blame. Some things just stop working.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,693 Ambassador
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    Wise words as usual from Z.
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  • gallygirl
    gallygirl Posts: 17,240 Forumite
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    edited 10 April 2010 at 7:48AM
    ZTD wrote: »
    :grouphug:

    It may be that he doesn't know. Or it may be that you came inbetween him and a big bike. Or he could be having a mid-life crisis and is currently chasing 16 year olds. Or it may be that it was nothing *anyone* "did" (you obviously think it was you :naughty: ) but that you just grew apart.

    The debt will not have helped, but there is probably nothing definite to blame. Some things just stop working.

    I agree with Z. When I ended my marriage I know my OH found one of the hardest things was I couldn't really say why* - I just could not be with him any longer & could not pretend for the sake of the kids any more. Sometimes you just 'know' but cannot put it into words. He hadn't done anything wrong, and was a lovely caring man.

    * I thought it would have been a bit churlish to say 'your very breathing irritates me' :o

    Sun is out, have a great weekend peeps :)

    Hypno - do look at Dell outlet for a computer - I had a flat screen monitor, mouse & keyboard & bought a laptop I could plug in to that so use as a laptop or PC. I got a 17" with em....... a good spec :o. I went for Category A scratch/dent and can't see anything wrong with it at all. It was £377.
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
    :) Mortgage Balance = £0 :)
    "Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"
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