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On Local Rent Allowance - can't afford house and can't afford to move!! HELP PLEASE!

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  • chesky369
    chesky369 Posts: 2,590 Forumite
    Next time, get married, makes life so much simpler when it ends!:D

    (sorry, I have a rather unfortunate sense of humour)
  • Sense of humour is what gets you through eh?!
  • chesky369
    chesky369 Posts: 2,590 Forumite
    Don't know about getting through, it's dropped me in it more often than I care to remember.
  • daska
    daska Posts: 6,212 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Sorry, I thought you weren't really up for finding a lodger because of the kids. If you've looked after the place and been a good tenant for some time then you might find that the LL is happier for you to get a lodger and pay the rent than risk a void while finding a new tenant - at least then you're legally liable for the standing charges and council tax etc. They will probably insist that they are named on the tenancy agreement.

    And if you haven't made a payment towards the council tax please make one as a matter of urgency because that's a priority debt which will be pursued.
    Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants - Michael Pollan
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  • I know what you mean, but that's why if I could find a lodger through a friend of a friend kind of thing, I would feel more comfortable with us all in the house together. The children would never of course be left with the lodger on their own.

    Re council tax, I'm rather embarrassed to say it's covered as part of the housing benefit/LHA payments. This is why I want to be able to stand on my own two feet again as soon as poss.
  • missmontana
    missmontana Posts: 1,994 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Have a look on Gumtree it might even be possible to find a lodger that would only want week nights etc. If my house wasn't so open plan, I would've considered that as an option.

    Have you looked at payplan.com? I'm considering doing this for my debts, you pay them so much every month and they pay the people you owe I think.
    Be who you are, say what you feel, those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.
    They say that talking to yourself is a sign of mental illness. So I talk to the cats instead.
  • chesky369
    chesky369 Posts: 2,590 Forumite
    Have you looked at payplan.com?

    Why pay for something you can get for free?
  • daska
    daska Posts: 6,212 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I know what you mean, but that's why if I could find a lodger through a friend of a friend kind of thing, I would feel more comfortable with us all in the house together. The children would never of course be left with the lodger on their own.

    Re council tax, I'm rather embarrassed to say it's covered as part of the housing benefit/LHA payments. This is why I want to be able to stand on my own two feet again as soon as poss.

    Please don't waste time on being embarrassed, the purpose of our social security system is to provide social security for those who find themselves financially 'embarrassed'. (But TBH I know exactly how you feel having previously been a high earner and now entirely dependent on benefits.)
    Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants - Michael Pollan
    48 down, 22 to go
    Low carb, low oxalate Primal + dairy
    From size 24 to 16 and now stuck...
  • chesky369
    chesky369 Posts: 2,590 Forumite
    What part of the country are you in OP?
  • Thank you Miss Montana. I'll have a look at Gumtree tonight.

    Chesky369 - I'm in South Bucks.
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