Ok - So am wishing i wasnt here anymore :-(

ZTD

Naah, stick with "I want my charges back!"

In_Search_Of_Me

hehe, love the fact that we all come at it from a diff perspective - guess I go with the f**k it, ivle done it & now sort it philosphy! See Doddy you have a trainee accountant telling you it will be Ok so it must be Isnt it fab that we're all here for each other in the dark days eh! DFW's rock!!

jessicamb

Glad you are feeling better today hun.

Those books are the bane of your life arent they! If I was there I'd do them for you.

Advice from me is have a look at the year befores accounts, then decide if business was better/worse in the following year and the accounts should be in line. Dont worry about them - they only have to show a 'true and fair' view of business performance rather than being exact down to the penny for each transaction. If you're not sure and its not a huge amount then estimate and if it is a biggie theres plenty of accounting/business type peeps on here who can help you out.

scottishspendaholic

fishface-69 wrote:

See Doddy you have a trainee accountant telling you it will be Ok so it must be

Fishface has had too many gins! Its d-o-t-t-y silly!

scottishspendaholic x

tesuhoha

Just want to add my good wishes dottyanne and say sorry youre feeling so low. Hope things look up for you soon. Its about time something good happened for you.

piglet6

Hey, Dotty!

Haven't read through the whole thread, but as somebody who has been in the situation of having a partner who felt the same way as you, and then acted upon his feelings, I beg you please to think twice, and then once again, before making any rash decisions about the future.

I can't tell you how horrendous it is to find the person you love, having given up on life, and not wanting to fight any more. Luckily, in my case, I was in time to call for help and resolve the immediate problem (stomach pumping). I felt guilt for years, and still do (and this happened in April 1998). It is difficult to describe your feelings as the "other" person...it is extremely difficult to understand and there is very little support in my experience (my OH was treated with contempt and pushed to the back of the queue for attention in hospital, because his injuries were self-caused...and I can understand this feeling up to a point, because I do agree that people in genuine A&E situations deserve priority), although it didn't help my personal situation. Even now, 8 years later, I experience feelings of panic if I cannot reach OH by phone (overwhelming feelings of "why is he not picking up, what if he's...?") and no amount of reassurance can make me feel 100% safe. Deep down, I still hold it against him, and although I try hard not to throw it back at him in arguments, it still haunts me and every argument we have has to be "controlled"...

Please remember that you are loved and wanted on this board (and, I am sure, in "real" life as well!), and therefore, no matter how low you are feeling, please hang in there and don't do anything that would cause regret later...

:grouphug:

Piglet

Debtomaniak

Have anyone seen Dottyanne here today? Can't find her. Hey Dottyanne are you OK?

spud30

Debtomaniak wrote:

Have anyone seen Dottyanne here today? Can't find her. Hey Dottyanne are you OK?

According to Dotty's profile, she was around this morning.

Hope you're feeling a bit better Dotty love. :beer:

dottyanne

Debtomaniak wrote:

Have anyone seen Dottyanne here today? Can't find her. Hey Dottyanne are you OK?

Hi - yes im here!! AM ok - thanks for being so concerned - cant stay on right now but might pop back on later or tomorrow - thanks all of you - love dottyanne xxxxx :hello:

dottyanne

Hi all - just thought i'd pop on to this old thread and tell you all that im feeling a lot more positive now - i know im a long way from being out of the woods but at least i can see clearly now - i have a cracking book-keeper now who is rearing to go - however i have to wait till my waste of time accountant comes back off his hols and submits my 2004-05 accounts (finally) before i can dispense of his crappy services.........!!