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not disabled enough to watch a film !?!

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  • Ivrytwr3 wrote: »
    ok, you're obviously upset. But why are you upset? I'm nobody, am i worth getting upset/wound up over? No i'm not.

    Forget about it all for tonight. Here's something that might make you smile:

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=1143821&highlight=

    im upset cos everyday i have to battle to try to be normal, to prove to people including my family that im not some waste of space! because i have people telling me on a daily basis they wish i would be killed all because i am different, because i cant walk down the street without being spat at! and then i come on a disability forum hoping someone will understand and wont laugh at me or make me feel any worse than i already feel! THAT is why i am upset!
    DON'T JUDGE ME, YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I'VE BEEN THROUGH, YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I'VE FELT, OR WHAT I FEEL RIGHT NOW! SO FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO WITH YOUR TIME, THAN JUDGE SOMEONE YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT!!!
  • Ivrytwr3
    Ivrytwr3 Posts: 6,304 Forumite
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    Nobody deseves to be spat at, nobody should have to go through life been told they aren't wanted. But i don't know you, i haven't judged you. So don't think i/we are like the people who are been horrible to you.

    You came into the forum like a pair of size 12 boots and a sledgehammer. YOU pre-judged us, we didn't pre-judge you.

    You've obviously got your guard up and won't let people get close to you for fear of them hurting you, and if what you say is true, i don't blame you.

    Give us a chance and you might make some good virtual friends!
  • Ivrytwr3 wrote: »
    Nobody deseves to be spat at, nobody should have to go through life been told they aren't wanted. But i don't know you, i haven't judged you. So don't think i/we are like the people who are been horrible to you.

    You came into the forum like a pair of size 12 boots and a sledgehammer. YOU pre-judged us, we didn't pre-judge you.

    You've obviously got your guard up and won't let people get close to you for fear of them hurting you, and if what you say is true, i don't blame you.

    Give us a chance and you might make some good virtual friends!

    the thing is i DID try to give you lot a chance, but alot of yours and other people comments came accross as very condecending! i didnt nit pick at anyone i didnt imply anything about anyone, you even refered to me as pat butcher! and others made me out to be a fraud with comments about how i manage in pubs or on buses or aeroplanes!
    DON'T JUDGE ME, YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I'VE BEEN THROUGH, YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I'VE FELT, OR WHAT I FEEL RIGHT NOW! SO FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO WITH YOUR TIME, THAN JUDGE SOMEONE YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT!!!
  • Ivrytwr3
    Ivrytwr3 Posts: 6,304 Forumite
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    I said Peggy Mitchell, not Pat Butcher!! Loooool!!! :)

    And btw Peggy Mitchell was very hot in her day!
  • Ivrytwr3 wrote: »
    I said Peggy Mitchell, not Pat Butcher!! Loooool!!! :)

    And btw Peggy Mitchell was very hot in her day!

    well who ever, i dont watch eastenders but still non the less, it hurt! alot of peoples comments hurt. which is why my sig says what it says!
    DON'T JUDGE ME, YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I'VE BEEN THROUGH, YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I'VE FELT, OR WHAT I FEEL RIGHT NOW! SO FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO WITH YOUR TIME, THAN JUDGE SOMEONE YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT!!!
  • Swan_2
    Swan_2 Posts: 7,060 Forumite
    I think Ivrytwr3's trying to extend a hand :A
  • Swan wrote: »
    I think Ivrytwr3's trying to extend a hand :A

    i know, and im not pushing that hand away. i just cant forgive and forget, done that too often and had it backfire
    DON'T JUDGE ME, YOU DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I'VE BEEN THROUGH, YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I'VE FELT, OR WHAT I FEEL RIGHT NOW! SO FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO WITH YOUR TIME, THAN JUDGE SOMEONE YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT!!!
  • DX2
    DX2 Posts: 8,275 Forumite
    i know, and im not pushing that hand away. i just cant forgive and forget, done that too often and had it backfire
    Oh fgs just grow up.
    *SIGH*
    :D
  • mouseymousey99
    mouseymousey99 Posts: 1,868 Forumite
    Don't know if this would help, but sometimes when I can't sit in the seat (bad back) I just sit on the floor. I like to go to the theatre and the seats are not designed for comfort (in my humble). I wait till the lights go down then just sit next to the seat or on the step, leaning on the wall. Getting back up is 'interesting' but what the heck I've seen the play by then.
  • Indie_Kid
    Indie_Kid Posts: 23,097 Forumite
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    right so im supposed to travel to the next nearerst cinema and have to pay £10 each way in taxi fares am i? get real!

    You'd have to do that if you weren't disabled, would you?
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