MSE Parents Club Part 11

got-it-spend-it

tarajayne wrote: »

Ladies, I have a very little problem, bit sad about it...

I have nobody to give me away!

Was all going too well.

One of your DDs Tara, or DS1?

I didn't have anyone give me away, just walked down the aisle on my own, bridesmaids behind me.

tarajayne

chopsticks wrote: »

Tara, what about DS1?

That was my first thought, but he may hate the idea of everyone watching him. It's a lot to ask of an Autistic lad.

elle_gee

Tara, on your own leaves more room for a big dress

tarajayne

Wasn't even gonna invite my Mum!!!

searching_me

tara id do it on my own ... i'll have the same problem one day if i do but if you want someone id say DD with what you two have been through together i think it would be lovely x

3onitsway

cazscoob wrote: »

Thanks 3 that would be great! he has started to do it on th bus too??
he can pull the poppers out of his vest and can get the nappy/pant off quicker than you would imagine, he has no idea he needs the toilet as he could be running and it just happens?

http://www.bucklesafe.co.uk/buy_bucklesafe/

Or
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/Seat-Safety-Belt-Buckle-Guard-Lock-Child-Seats_W0QQitemZ260515606679QQcmdZViewItemQQptZUK_Baby_BabyCarSeatAccessories_SM?hash=item3ca7f0b097

The first one looks better, the second one looks like what they're using now in the taxi.

I didn't think about him being in a car seat. The link Elle gave to Crelling is what they used to use on the bus with him. It wasn't that he undid the harness, he sneakily slipped his arms out to wiggle out - so the crelling strap stopped that. (The fairies have a spare here somewhere if you or anyone else needs it).

tarajayne wrote: »

I have nobody to give me away!

DS?

pigpen wrote: »

That apparently depends on whether you have a social worker or not or some other kind of keyworker.

We got nappies before we had a social worker. School nurse organised it for us. My fairies have one or two bags of big nappies out in the shed if they're any use to you. They fitted my J at 10/11.

pigpen

tarajayne wrote: »

Wasn't even gonna invite my Mum!!!

LOL.. sounds like a plan..

I'd do the walk on my ownsome then!

3.. Our old school nurse was great (high praise indeed from me!) this new one is an absolute twerp.. rude, judgemental and just not a nice person.. she just seems to think parents are thick and has no personal experience just spouts book-bullfrogs!

tarajayne

My friend said today she would do it, we were giggling. She could say 'I'll let you have my friend' and hand me over. Reckon we could end up sniggering all the way down the aisle!:rotfl:

tarajayne

Maybe Ben could do it?

elle_gee

3onitsway wrote: »

.. The link Elle gave to Crelling is what they used to use on the bus with him...

I pinched it from you! My mum's friend was asking about something like that so I gave her the link you posted ages ago Just had to ask Mum to search through her emails to find it again!