MSE Parents Club Part 11

searching_me

jillie1974 wrote: »

sorry sm.
maybe give them a call??

thanks for trying just wish they'd make it easier ...

like how does my smp affect next year tax creds? or give you a calculator for it x

searching_me

tia id call rspca get the dog taken away x

Becles

searching_me wrote: »

becs glad your ok ... do you think you're just over stressed i know you do alot x

I don't know.

At the minute, I've had cold and sinus symptoms since October, I get awful headaches, I'm not sleeping well, I've got indigestion, my bowel is playing up, I've got a dull ache in my chest, general aches and pains all over, and I just feel so weak and tired all the time. Does that sound like stress?

It's getting me down as I'm not coping well and I'm struggling to get everything done. Nobody else will help out, and I don't know what to do. Sorry for dragging the thread down. I know I should snap out of feeling sorry for myself and get on and do stuff, but frankly I can't be arsed to

tarajayne

Atchoo, atchoo!!!!! Blurgh, dusty.


WM, bigs (((hugs))). Hope you've had a hot sweet cuppa.

I have an Ugg, ugg OH.

searching_me

Becles wrote: »

I don't know.

At the minute, I've had cold and sinus symptoms since October, I get awful headaches, I'm not sleeping well, I've got indigestion, my bowel is playing up, I've got a dull ache in my chest, general aches and pains all over, and I just feel so weak and tired all the time. Does that sound like stress?

to be honest yes as its exactly how i feel when im stressed and over tired .. think about it when was the last time you had a break .. any you time or at least a good 12 hour sleep to feel human again (we all need these) ..

It's getting me down as I'm not coping well and I'm struggling to get everything done. Nobody else will help out, and I don't know what to do. Sorry for dragging the thread down. I know I should snap out of feeling sorry for myself and get on and do stuff, but frankly I can't be arsed to

who said you were dragging down the thread ... you feel sorry yourself your allowed .. think its time you got selfish and think about you for once ... you cant keeping going like this ((hugs)) to you xxx

tiamai_d

Becles, yes, I feel achey and irritable and tired and generally run down when stressed. It sounds like stress. Is there any way you can jiggle things so you can take it a bit easier?

tarajayne

Aw Becs, you need an extra big (((huggle))). XXXXXXX

pinkpig08

becs, you're not dragging the thread down - we all have our rubbishy moments sometimes, and they need to be shared as well as the good ones. I've had a rubbishy day today too. It must be difficult when you know there's something wrong but everyone seems to be telling you there isn't. (((hugs))) xxx

SugarSpun

Becs, you're not dragging the thread down. It does sound like you're stressed :grouphug:

cazscoob

tiamai_d wrote: »

Yes, you tell your little boy who should be in a whellchair but is in actual fact standing up and trying to walk, how very disapointed you are that he is not rolling and crawling:cool: Or tell her to F!!! Off!!

:T:Ti agree! he is doing wonders and may be one of the children that doesnt want to crawl or sit and will just get up one day and walk! as for the doctors i would personally move to another GP!

Dontknowanymore wrote: »

Hi guys, thanks for the messages.
I dont want to talk to anyone, dont want SS to think I cant cope, i'll be ok, just suffering from lack of sleep thats all.
On the plus side, I weighed myself today as I was about to fall of the wagon and have lost 4lb already! :j

well done on the weightloss!!! SS wouldnt think that you cant cope but i know when it all got too much for me i had to speak to someone and get it all out, i honestly felt so much better and found it easier to get back on my feet and become stronger! what about asking your HV or GP for a CPN referal? like you at first i didnt think it would help but it does and i think SM and others will agree x

Becles wrote: »

It's getting me down as I'm not coping well and I'm struggling to get everything done. Nobody else will help out, and I don't know what to do. Sorry for dragging the thread down. I know I should snap out of feeling sorry for myself and get on and do stuff, but frankly I can't be arsed to

remember you are a human being and not a robot or super woman! you have so much going on right now! Have you thought about homestart or even getting someone in to help around the house? theres always ads up here for people looking for a little extra x