MSE Parents Club Part 11

always29

yay! 12 noon and we are both dressed for the day now, what slobs! Only so I can go for a walk and a coffee and wander past shops and be deeply un-:money:

I think Tom had his first bottle of EBM when he was under a month old and doesn't seem to have done him any harm. Until Friday, he'd only had at most half a dozen bottle feeds and I don't know what his daddy did on Friday but Saturday morning when I was feeding him, he was holding the bottle himself! What really has amazed me is that while I was determined to bf, I wasn't sure how I'd get on with it, let alone stick with it for the recommended 6 months but how amazingly easy and convenient it is, and I can see now why ladies do it for longer.

searching_me

afternoon ...

had my driving lesson didnt go too well really annoyed at myself because i knew it ...

having fuss with very at i ordered a washing machine (a large load one) and because of the hols they've been major mess up with the orders .. now after sorting it out .. its coming just dont know when *shrug* ..

how is everyone ... i should be going to the shop but i cba x

nikkit72

hi all,

havent been on alot recently, how is everyone , you all chat to muh to read back ,

My hormones playing me up again, getting upset over silly things again , here goes,

OH gets email from ex saying hes girls are bored over school hols , can he come and take em out to park etc , instead of her fat !!!! getting off sofa to do it , ok he says, hes mates text him and ask him to play com games , he says ok , bare in mind , when ever i ask him to do stuff with me and my kids he has an excuse , i.e go for a walk , go to park , go to town he says im doing stuff ( when hes blantanly not )he has belly ache and cant go away from the toilet ..when he looks fine... he cant understand why i have got upset over hes ex emailing ,and he does stuff for her staright away with no excuses and not me , OMG here i go again with the waterworks, im alwasy 4th best to everything with him recently , and he wonders why im so cold to him , and these things just make me feel less and less feelings for him.

oh and i ahve my first proper period today too,

searching_me

((hugs)) nik .. but you do realise its working if shes putting distance inbetween you two .. also i dont think he realise how hes making you feel maybe sit down and talk about it .. dont shoot me but you have to remember he does have other children and it must be hard to try and give everyone time .. keep everyone happy and still have time to be himself ... just dont let her win x

aless02

This is why I don't exercise...just doing some yoga on the Wii Fit and the phone rings not once, not twice, but THREE times in the middle of various poses. So I gave up and had my lunch (need to do that before Finn wakes up or I won't get another chance for a long while)...watch, now it won't ring again all day .

Krystaltips

SusanC wrote: »

I've been wondering how long the milk takes to disappear - it's almost a month since Alice actually fed (and it was two weeks before that) but I still have milk.

Aimee gave up feeding in a very similar way... She started going longer between feeds, would ask every couple of weeks until eventually there was just no milk there when she tried to feed...

My friend who gave up on her sons second birthday had milk for a good 12 months afterwards though...

I think everyone is different really...

And I'm pretty sure I've seen earrings in charity shops... If they're new and unworn then I don't see why they wouldn't take them...

Aimee's coming home tomorrow!

And Caitlyn just got hold of Aimee's bindeez studio and emptied about a million of them over the floor... Happy days!

SugarSpun

Haha aless a most sensible reason for not exercising

I'm waiting for OH to go out and then Molly and I will be playing Wii Just Dance. Well, I'll be dancing and she will be laughing at me. It works.

My_Fathers_Daughter

always29 wrote: »

I think Tom had his first bottle of EBM when he was under a month old and doesn't seem to have done him any harm. Until Friday, he'd only had at most half a dozen bottle feeds and I don't know what his daddy did on Friday but Saturday morning when I was feeding him, he was holding the bottle himself! What really has amazed me is that while I was determined to bf, I wasn't sure how I'd get on with it, let alone stick with it for the recommended 6 months but how amazingly easy and convenient it is, and I can see now why ladies do it for longer.

The sooner the better IMHO (sssshhhh ) I think nipple confusion is made up by 'them' to scare women into not giving bottles!

They don't call it meals on heels for nothing I find all the stuff that you have to remember with bottle feeding a headache! I loved it when it was just me and babba and that was all we needed to go out for the day!


nikkit ((HUGS)) chick. Keep your chin up, remember that some of it will most definitely be hormones but not necessarily all of it. Can you try and sit down and have a chat to him about helping a little more. I found starting a sentence with 'I know I might be being unreasonable and hormonal BUT...' kind of softened hubby up straight away. I used it even when I didn't think I was being unreasonable or hormonal :rotfl:

nikkit72

searching_me wrote: »

((hugs)) nik .. but you do realise its working if shes putting distance inbetween you two .. also i dont think he realise how hes making you feel maybe sit down and talk about it .. dont shoot me but you have to remember he does have other children and it must be hard to try and give everyone time .. keep everyone happy and still have time to be himself ... just dont let her win x

thx , yes i know he has other kids , and they come round here every week we try doing stuff but with 6 kids between us now its ahrd to all go out together , so he does stuff with them when they are here , its just i like to get out with baby and my kids , even when my kids at sch i go for walks and he makes every excuse up to not go with me , and now she emails and he goes running .
and also i find it so hard to sit down and talk and keep it in for way to long and then breakdown

kindofagilr

Wow I am actually dressed, make up on and hair done, its a miracle, it will not last lol

We're taking Elliot to get weighed today, its the first time he's been weighed since the HV came on day ten.

OH is on the phone trying to not renew our home insurance and the !!!!!!s are "all busy" so he is on hold! Its a bloody 0844 number as well, arent they expensive?

Then we are off too asda ... exciting I know lol