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Frightened about my future

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  • jinny
    jinny Posts: 1,889 Forumite
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    One thing I noticed when googling those dca's some of the agencies appear to be "related" Like Lowells are situated in Apex house and I got a letter for one of my "indiscressions" fom a company called Apex mm may look into that further. there is a website for Companies House that lists all the Directors addresses ect in any business that might be interesting, must ask Nid if he knows.
    ”Pour yourself a drink, (tea for me now)
    Put on some lipstick
    and pull yourself together”
    - Elizabeth Taylor
  • mouseann
    mouseann Posts: 1,820 Forumite
    jinny wrote: »
    One thing I noticed when googling those dca's some of the agencies appear to be "related" Like Lowells are situated in Apex house and I got a letter for one of my "indiscressions" fom a company called Apex mm may look into that further. there is a website for Companies House that lists all the Directors addresses ect in any business that might be interesting, must ask Nid if he knows.

    You are becoming a fount of all knowledge, Jinny.

    And thanks for the advice re the phone calls.
    "What does not kill me makes me stronger". Frederich Nietzsche, 1844-1900.
  • jinny
    jinny Posts: 1,889 Forumite
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    My nieces took me to Wilkinson and you can get some padded plastic and stick inside envelopes which is really cheap.
    What a great idea SW i have loads of bubble wrap from when I moved so could use that. Marvelous I love looking back on my day at bedtime and recall what Ive learned that day that will be in my recall tonight.
    ”Pour yourself a drink, (tea for me now)
    Put on some lipstick
    and pull yourself together”
    - Elizabeth Taylor
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Girls Jasper Conran (my other dear friend JC) on JC's kick up the butt diary needs urgent advice. Her OH has hit her. He is always upsetting her and getting them into debt and now he is being violent. Even to their DD.

    I dont want to be biased or give her the wrong advice. Please can people offer her advice on what to do?
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • fluffyboots
    fluffyboots Posts: 36 Forumite
    Just read your last post..anyone who is being hit should get out straight away!! I have been there I know..:)or get the person who is violent moved by the cops..
  • jinny
    jinny Posts: 1,889 Forumite
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    Absolutley get away asap from any violence. Ring the police now
    ”Pour yourself a drink, (tea for me now)
    Put on some lipstick
    and pull yourself together”
    - Elizabeth Taylor
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    I think it happened yesterday. I have emailed her your advice. Her mum and dad love her i hope she is with them. She will be safe there but he might lock her out.

    I think i am panicking. Hopefully it is ok. She is such a nice person. Why are people so horrible?
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • mouseann
    mouseann Posts: 1,820 Forumite
    Girls Jasper Conran (my other dear friend JC) on JC's kick up the butt diary needs urgent advice. Her OH has hit her. He is always upsetting her and getting them into debt and now he is being violent. Even to their DD.

    I dont want to be biased or give her the wrong advice. Please can people offer her advice on what to do?

    Thanks SW,

    I am sure you would never give out wrong advice!

    It is so wrong that she is being subjected to violence - this should not happen.

    Will pop over to say "hello". It would be nice if others did the same - a friend in need, and all that!

    Puts debts into perspective .....
    "What does not kill me makes me stronger". Frederich Nietzsche, 1844-1900.
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    I am so worried for her. Thank you Ann and Jinny and dear Fluffyboots.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • mouseann
    mouseann Posts: 1,820 Forumite
    Hi SW,

    Have just put a message on her thread, offering the support of everyone on here.

    Hopefully, she may join us - our light-hearted banter may cheer he up, although goodness knows she has a lot to contend with.
    "What does not kill me makes me stronger". Frederich Nietzsche, 1844-1900.
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