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Weekly Flylady Thread 1st March 2010

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  • Pollybear
    Pollybear Posts: 3,324 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    edited 4 March 2010 at 4:28PM
    I get obsessed with stars too, I do try not to but I get really depressed if there's something on the list which doesn't seem achievable by me. No matter how many times somebody tells me the lists are only a guide and if something doesn't apply to me I can leave it out. I'm useless.


    Washing all dry, folded and put away.

    LameWolf,
    that's really sad about the wolf :( I have a dog who is nearly 15 and I will miss her terribly when she's gone. Unfortunately I feel like I'm wasting the last year(s) of her life worrying about losing her instead of enjoying still having her. I watch her constantly and worry when she falls down.
  • poohbear59
    poohbear59 Posts: 4,866 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    I haven't done anything yet today as I am very short of energy. I will do a quick s and s in the bathrooms later. DS1 and 2 are going to sort the airing cupboard.

    Sorry I haven't read through the thread today as I can't concentrate. Hugs for anyone who needs them.

    Maybe catch up later. :)
    business mortgage £0))''(+ Barclay's business kitchen loan £0=Total paid off was £96105 PPI claimed and received £13527
    'I had a black dog, his name was depression".
  • Emma133
    Emma133 Posts: 364 Forumite
    Not been around much today or got much done as I have had visitors hope everyone is ok and keeping well.
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]Daily routines/todailies [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]laundry F S S[/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]swish and swipe kitchen F S S[/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]swish and swipe bathroom F S S [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]ironing M T W T S S [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]making beds F S S [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]vacuuming high traffic areas F S S [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]making meals etc F S S[/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]painting bathroom M T W T F S S [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]Night-time routines [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]preparing clothes for the next day T F S [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]swish & swipes of the kitchen T F S[/FONT]

    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]Weeklies[/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]Tanks[/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]Meal Plan & Shopping list[/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]Kids reading & spellings/homework[/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]Baking[/FONT]

    Monday ~ Kitchen & Dining area
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Clean out the freezer.. defrost if necessary but just emptied and sorted
    Extras

    Tuesday ~ Living room, reception rooms and hallway
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Tidy understair/hall cupboard



    Extras
    1. Wash windows and curtains
    Wednesday ~ Master bedroom
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    HHI



    Extras
    1. Clear out a cupboard.. any cupboard.. or a very full drawer I guess
    Thursday ~ Bathroom, WC and Study Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Extras
    Friday ~ Everything else!
    Level One
    Level Two
    Sort through a box of toys/junk
    Organise a chest of drawers/wardrobe
    Level Three
    Tidy up coats, bags and shoes.. throw away broken umbrellas!
    Wash some grubby curtains
    Wipe paintwork in a room you've not done this in for some time



    Extras
    1. Clean fronts and backs of 2 radiators
    2. Binbag dance
    3. Straighten a bookcase.. the books not the actual furniture! :p
    4. HHI
    Own [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]Extras – Usually Several Weeks to do.....and never gets smaller...[/FONT]
    1. [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]Video Camera footage to disc[/FONT]
    2. [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]Paint Bathroom Doors, Skirts and under radiator[/FONT]
    3. [FONT=Arial, sans-serif]2 x Easter Bonnets[/FONT]
    4. sort out photos on discs & develop
    5. sideboard no. 2 drawers
    6. DD2's Toybox and baskets
    7. Freezers Defrost & inventory
    8. Clean up PC
    9. Nag OH to put shelves up
    10. Sew on Scout badges - AGAIN
    Emma x
    Mum to 4 beautiful children :D
    2011 Goals declutter the house :eek: decluttered 42 items :j
  • tc3061
    tc3061 Posts: 106 Forumite
    Hi all :wave:

    Not quite completed to level 3 on any days yet, but aim to do so by end of the day tomorrow, especially for kitchen & master bedroom as those have now become my 2 easiest rooms ;)

    Did give DS room a good going over yesterday, but can't claim anything for that as the girl's room is horrendeous still :eek: so I'm still working my way up to tackling that, my mum did mention coming round one day soon to help me sort it so it won't be avoided forever.

    Lost another 2lbs at sw this week so feel I'm on a roll (until the next holiday!) Haven't caught up with much of the thread but tonight is our night of no clubs so might get some time to read through some of it.
    Good luck toochoosey.

    tc3061
    x
  • Dorastar
    Dorastar Posts: 2,175 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    Pollybear wrote: »
    I get obsessed with stars too, I do try not to but I get really depressed if there's something on the list which doesn't seem achievable by me. No matter how many times somebody tells me the lists are only a guide and if something doesn't apply to me I can leave it out. I'm useless.
    QUOTE]

    I feel the same way sometimes but am learning to live with the lists and lack of stars. At the end of the day we only do what we can do in the time we have. Have been on a course al day with other deputy heads who worked up to 70 hours a week - even the bloke running the course said that they "were only making things worse for themselves". Time has its limits and we can't 'make more time' as my dh keeps saying.

    On the flylady web pages she says FLY is all about Finally Loving Yourself, which also means being realistic, looking after yourself and then seeing what time you have left and what you can get done in it without driving yourself potty.

    Thankfully dh has done quite a lot today so house is ok downstairs - not that anyone is coming round - and he has said he'll sort clothes out tomorrow. So I'm off dancing tonight and stitch and bi*ch with friends tomorrow night!
    Mortgage £119,533 going down slowly
    Emergency fund £1000/£1000
    Savings for big things £9017
  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    edited 4 March 2010 at 6:39PM
    afternoon everyone
    its bright and sunny here but a bit cold -
    just catching up on the last couple of days.............

    Penny glad Ds did ok and your meeting went well and loved Soappie's disguise!!!
    boddy massive (((hugs))) for you and healing vibes for your colleague - is the outlook any better for her? It must have been nice for her too to see you and acknowledge that you were there xx
    Kazw brilliant story:rotfl:
    Dorastar thats brilliant about the school rooms and staff - I am sure they will realise that it will make the place much nicer to work in - well done to you for 'encouraging' them - you will get there at home too - little and often can make a huge difference.
    sandy :rotfl: poor DH must have thought you had totally lost it when you were muttering about flying!!!
    KazLA :T:T well done keeping the kitchen tidy - and I am sure you will get other rooms tidy too - its so much easier to keep on top of things and I am not surprised you are tired - you are after all carry a fly-baby - dont be overdoing the digging!!! And as PenPen says you cant fly and read the thread - you waste too much time reading so just maybe read the last page when you can.
    cally hope mad kitty gets over her op quickly - maybe it will calm her down a bit too? She sounds wonderful:D
    Valli sorry I missed giving you positive vibes for your observation but I see you didnt need them - you are obviously an excellent teacher and the praise was well deserved (((hugs)))
    Kazm hello sweetie - hope you are ok - have a (((hug))) anyway xx
    MrsChaos hope everything is going ok for the delivery - easy and safe delivery vibes for babies and MUM xx
    Jinky yes i did miss you but thought you were having time out as last week was a bit :eek: - hope things are better this week and you are feeling in control again xx
    aj hope you manage to shift the cold and it doesnt spoil your time with your lovely DH
    johnina sorry to hear you have had a bad hand - hope it is much improved now.
    thifty sorry to hear you are having a hard time at work - hope it passes soon
    sabs10 sorry I missed the vibes for the dance comp - how did she do?
    juliejim sorry I missed you too - how did your obs go?
    helen jelly hope DS is on the mend now
    83rachel hope you are feeling brighter today - good luck with the job hunting
    FFP you cheeky mare!!! I speak proper like and dont have an accent like some folk!!!!:p:p:p:p:rotfl::rotfl:hope you are ok petal xx
    83rachael keep trying freegle and or freecycle for wardrobes - put a wanted note on.
    SunnyGirl you are not meant to be resting at college you are meant to be listening and studying remember:p:p
    zoelikejam awh huge (((hugs))) thats bad news about the findings -hope the custody battle goes better for you -:bdaycake: happy Birthday for Friday and have a great time at the wedding exhibition.
    methekids hope you are feeling better today
    pollybear well done getting the reduced insurance - very :money:
    Mumof2 the lists and the stars dont work for everyone angel - dont be hard on yourself - I think you do very well with what you do achieve - it take a lot of discipline to work at home and you do it well- perhaps the pc is your drain so on the mornings that you can why not pretend you are going to work at 9am like most people and get on with your typing - maybe the radio or some background music if you like but nothing to distract you too much - set a timer and work until it goes off - then a tea break etc - if you are easily distracted would it help if you wrote out a timetable for the day/ week and made your self keep to it - perhaps in 30 or 60 min slots so that you have astructured day and not just do things as they crop up? hope we can help you but remember the lists are for guidance so dont get too hung up on completing them- prioritise and do the important stuff FIRST! - Dusty's way works well for her.
    lav1979 hope the scan went well - do we get to know if its pink or blue?:rotfl:
    froddy thats brilliant that he has made such a quick recovery - bet you wer4e smiling when you saw him!!!
    Jo thats a brilliant routine you have worked out there - I am impressed angel:T:T:T:D:D:D
    Triker hope the weather is good enough for you to do a car boot - it would be good to get rid of some stuff quickly and get the cash!
    mOZzy nice to have you hack with us again - glad to hear that DH has a job too:T
    Diva great news about your shower:T:D
    Ishtar huge (((hugs))) pet - its not easy - you feel as if you are helpless but just being there for your Mum and Stepdad is a huge support - make sure your Mum gets a MacMillan Nurse - they are worth their weight in gold - pm me if there is anything I can do.
    soappie hope you maange to the meeting on time and it goes in favour of your friend
    Mumto5HappyBirthday to your DD2:bdaycake: hope she has had a lovely day and not been too overwhelmed by it all
    KornishKat its important to spend time with children when they are growing and developing- enjoy it:D
    Natty lovely to have you back firing on all cylinders:rotfl:but go easy this week - you can go full throttle next week if your are ok!!!:D
    Greenbee hope your heating is working ok now - it will help with the motivation
    KittyKirsty you need to get GH trained to do things the wat you want then done:D
    wilf yes its very easy to get carried away but it was all good prices so you have probably saved money inb the long run
    rosepink its good to see that you are trying harder and not sleeping so much - now that you have got passed the recent bout of depression I will be taking you off the daily award - you are so much cheerier and now that the flat is tidy it wont get you down - we will still be watching for your posts to see what you are up to and nagging you to keep up with the housework like everybody else!!! Keep up the good work - you dont want to let the flat slip back or let those lovely ladies down.
    helen great news about the CRB - I am glad you didnt have to wait too long
    pooh sorry to hear you are short on the energy front but just you supervise the boys and enjoy it :D(((hugs)))
    tc well done with the weight loss and get your MUM over asap and get that room done - its far easier witth someone to help and they have a way of being more ruthless than you do - they are not so attached to things!!!

    I have had a good day pottering around
    stripped the bed and got it washed and hung out
    the cleaner brought it in and irined it and its just airing off
    have sorted handbags
    have done another bucket of shredding
    have put away dry washing fromyesterday
    have sorted through new medicines that came today:eek: (now have to go down my feeding tube)
    dealt with the post when it arrived
    have put away loads of bits and bobs - should have counted.
    caught up on here - that took a while:D

    feel satisfied with todays progress and its not over yet

    better get tea organised
    toots xx

    ETA meant to say - there are loads of poorlies on here just now so I am sending masses of get well vibes to you all - sorry if I didnt mention you - I wass catching up between jobs. xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • Sarah2490
    Sarah2490 Posts: 266 Forumite
    Hi all,

    Hope your having a good fly week? No chance of catching up :o ((Hugs)) to al that need/want them

    Been a very bust bee this week worked 2 day, trying to keep up with the flying and sort my finance out. 2 major event this week! decided to move house (moving end of month:eek:) and had to take DD to A&E as she pulled her pram on top of herself and knocked herself out cold, panicked and was just about to call 999 when she came round so just took her up myself. The did lots of test and watched her for quite a while before letting her come home. She's ok apart from a very angry looking bump and a few scratches :(



    Monday ~ Kitchen & Dining area - Done, Star Please

    Tuesday ~ Living room, reception rooms and hallway – Done, Star Please

    Wednesday ~ Master bedroom
    Level One
    Level Two
    Done
    Level Three
    HHI


    Thursday ~ Bathroom, WC and Study
    Level One
    Level Two
    Done
    Level Three
    Replace bathmats/shower curtains/sponges and toothbrushes that are manky



    Friday ~ Everything else!
    Level One
    Vacuum these floors
    Level Two
    Strip some neglected sticky bedding
    Sort through a box of toys/junk
    Level Three
    Tidy up coats, bags and shoes.. throw away broken umbrellas!
    Wash some grubby curtains
    Wipe paintwork in a room you've not done this in for some time
    Crazy unorganised mum in need of help!
    NSD = 0/42 - July Shopping Challenge = 0/£40
    Debt - 0/£4k (estimate)
  • Natty68
    Natty68 Posts: 3,487 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    edited 4 March 2010 at 6:57PM
    I have managed to do a fair bit this afternoon, but I am shattered now so am going to sit with my feet up while watching Babylon 5 at 6pm. I have Spanish Chicken cooking in the slow cooker and I thought I would do a Spanish style couscous that I have in the cupboard and green flat beans with it. Not too heavy but still substantial for DH to feel he has had a dinner after a long day at work :j
    (
    pink done, green to do, orange ongoing!)

    Shower/dress/hair
    Feed birds
    Breakfast/meds
    Wash up
    Change bed
    Wash fleeces from living room (pet ones and sofa one)

    Chicken in slow cooker with sauce
    Dust living room
    Hoover living room and stairs
    Eggs from farm
    Change cat tray
    Doodoo run in the garden
    Kitchen hotspot by the back door
    Balance finances and update
    Pick rubbish up from front garden - I hate being the first house in the close we get all the recycling rubbish that blows around from the recycling van when it stops outside our house to collect all the bins in the close..grr!!
    Water plants
    Write a couple of letters
    Defrag computer
    Ring Eve - she wasn't in :(

    Just realised I don't need to do any ironing as I haven't got any :D Oooh now I really do wish I had kept up before my mega ironing session before New Years Eve, but I'm actually keeping on top of the ironing as and when it needs doing now. Thank you to Toots for sorting out the NYEve challenge, you really knocked me into shape :)


    Monday ~ Kitchen & Dining area
    Level One
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Wipe table!
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Clean out the freezer.. defrost if necessary but just emptied and sorted otherwise.. scrub those door seals!
    Clean out the cupboard with the pet food/miscellaneous items!

    Extras
    1. Scrub tiles
    2. dust and deweb!
    3. Wash small appliances and replace
    4. wipe the fluffy tops of appliances!
    Tuesday ~ Living room, reception rooms and hallway
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    Dust and deweb
    Polish glass and metals and mantel

    Extras
    1. Wash windows and curtains
    2. Wipe doors and skirtings
    3. Catch up on any important phone call
    4. update finances spreadsheets
    Wednesday ~ Master bedroom - DONE TOOTS hot4.gif
    Level One

    Level Two

    Level Three


    Extras
    1. Empty and wash out all bins upstairs
    2. Clear out a cupboard.. any cupboard.. or a very full drawer I guess
    3. List 5 things to sell/giveaway
    Thursday ~ Bathroom, WC and Study - DONE TOOTShot4.gif
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three

    Extras
    1. Clear and wipe and windows/french doors
    2. Sort all empties to recycling and make a note of anything you need to restock
    3. Sort through CD/DVD shelves.. dust and fling any that are no longer of use!
    4. Wipe over any sofas/chairs
    Friday ~ Everything else!
    Level One

    Declutter floors in childrens rooms, hall, stairs and landing
    Vacuum these floors
    Level Two

    Strip some neglected sticky bedding
    Organise a chest of drawers/wardrobe
    Level Three

    Wash some grubby curtains
    Wipe paintwork in a room you've not done this in for some time
    Extras
    1. Clean fronts and backs of 2 radiators
    2. Binbag dance
    3. Straighten a bookcase.. the books not the actual furniture!
    Oooh two stars today, not bad going in one day :D

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  • sabs10
    sabs10 Posts: 213 Forumite


    sabs10 sorry I missed the vibes for the dance comp - how did she do?


    7th in her ballet, 2nd & the Silver Medal in her Greek. I am one very proud Mum:D
    "Life's like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get" Forest Gump
  • Sarah2490
    Sarah2490 Posts: 266 Forumite
    sabs10 wrote: »
    7th in her ballet, 2nd & the Silver Medal in her Greek. I am one very proud Mum:D


    Well done to your girl :j I was a dancer and I can't wait till my dd is old enough for classes :)
    Crazy unorganised mum in need of help!
    NSD = 0/42 - July Shopping Challenge = 0/£40
    Debt - 0/£4k (estimate)
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