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A journey of a 1000 miles must begin with single footstep....
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I an now living with my sister, first night there tonight.LBM Aug 09: £18,650.47 - Current: £12,854.93 (£5946.79)
Barclays: £2,928.34 Lloyds: £2,499.60
MBNA: £3,788.99 Overdraft: £1,900.00 Mum: £1,738.00
Surveys: £6.60/£40.000 -
Oh sweetheart. I'm sorry things didnt work out - is this a trial separation or have you decided that's it now?
You know where I am if you want to talk
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Hope your ok hun xMARCH 2016 DEBT £25750/ £25035
EST DFD JAN 2021 (that needs to change)
NOW JAN 2019 (that still needs to change)0 -
Thinking about you Woo
get a good nights sleep and as each day passes things will get better. Try not to worry too much.
God bless
You take good care of yourself.:grouphug:"You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream"C. S. Lewis
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sorry to hear that Woo, take it easy and let your sister help you through this.0
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I suck, have been home for a cuddle and cry with the OH and back to my sisters already. I want to go home, but know I need to take some time and be sure.LBM Aug 09: £18,650.47 - Current: £12,854.93 (£5946.79)
Barclays: £2,928.34 Lloyds: £2,499.60
MBNA: £3,788.99 Overdraft: £1,900.00 Mum: £1,738.00
Surveys: £6.60/£40.000 -
Sending you hugs woo, hopefully being at your sisters and being able to think about what you want may help you decide.0
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I agree with PWPS - you have time to decide, and I hope the little bit of space will give you clarity. How is OH taking it?
Lots of positive thoughts coming to you chick xx0 -
OH is so upset and wants to work things out.
I am on the edge at work today, almost cried on the catering lady when I realised I ordered lunch for a meeting with our Chief Exec for tomorrow instead of today. She has rescued me and is squeezing us in, thankfully!LBM Aug 09: £18,650.47 - Current: £12,854.93 (£5946.79)
Barclays: £2,928.34 Lloyds: £2,499.60
MBNA: £3,788.99 Overdraft: £1,900.00 Mum: £1,738.00
Surveys: £6.60/£40.000 -
Hi Woo, hope you're doing ok this morning. I think it's a very good idea to have some space to retreat to while you and OH decide what you want. don't let the fact that you miss him deter you from sorting out the issues that caused you to think about leaving in the first place. if he wants you back he should be willing to discuss/make compromises on the things that are important to you. Hope I haven't overstepped the mark there, but I think it would be easy to feel overwhelmed by missing him/prospect of being without him, and go back without sorting the main issues, which could make things worse in the long term? :grouphug:Little monkey born November 2012:jFroglet due March 20160
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