A journey of a 1000 miles must begin with single footstep....

jtr2803

The extra payment is top stuff hun!

I would also totally agree on giving yourself some spending money, you have done so well already and at the moment you need a bit of cheering up

EB69

Indeed Woo - you do so well, a nice little treat is the perfect pick me up. And no doubt you will think carefully about whatever treat it is to get maximum benefit from it (as opposed to me - I'd end up in nearest champagne bar and get sozzled and not even remember if I enjoyed it!!!!)

Woowoo

Thanks guys, I'm not falling off the wagon, just cutting myself some slack!

REDMADCURLS

Very glad to hear you are cutting yourself some slack honey! x

LittleMoog

I think that's a good decision woo, you can only cut things to the bare minimum for so long before you have to let yourself have something too, both in terms of physically needing to buy stuff and being able to stick to dfw ways in the long term

Herewego

I couldnt agree more with giving yourself a bit of treat money, you know I have done exactly that and I am a happier HWG than before cant wait for girls night out Friday and the following weekend we have a night away. All been done on the cheap but i guess its what you make of it.

Lemon_Tree

Woo i think you're doing something good by giving yourself some slack, there's nowt wrong with just plodding for a little while, when you're ready for the uber fight then we'll be here to help you as well. We'll be more than happy to help you spend if you want as well

REDMADCURLS

Sometimes I think we have gone from one extreme to the other.

Life IS for living and yes we must spend some of our living is paying debts off but there has to be a little give and take too. Everything you buy now Woo will be treasured and enjoyed and thats priceless. Frivilous spending is not good but spending to nuture that give and take part of living is very very necessary.

**Kat**_2

I agree with everyone Woo - you deserve to cut yourself some slack, if it wasn't for you and your diary I don't think I would have joined xx

Woowoo

Morning guys

Thanks for the understanding and not beating me with a big stick, however if you see me being really slack I would appreciate a massive kick up the !!! as this debt is not gonna clear itself after all!