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  • SuzySu
    SuzySu Posts: 3,478 Forumite
    Aww Bookie....(((hugs))). Been there too and it feels pretty much like rock bottom. Yet here I am, renting a lovely house and getting help with CT and HB - every cloud and all that.
    YOUR = belonging to you (your coat); YOU'RE = you are (I hope you're ok)

    really....it's not hard to understand :T
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    bookseller1980 wrote: »
    Just been talking to the guy who is advising me on the bank loan. I really do have no alternative but to sell the house.
    I guess I'd better just bite the bullet and get on with it.
    Going to try and finish these accounts I'm doing and then phone some estate agents.
    Really feel that my life is over at this point in time and wish I was brave enough to down all my prescription. (don't worry - I really won't).
    Guess I'll bounce somehow.

    Oh Bookie, I really dont know what to say :(:grouphug:
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    bookseller1980 wrote: »
    Just been talking to the guy who is advising me on the bank loan. I really do have no alternative but to sell the house.
    I guess I'd better just bite the bullet and get on with it.
    Going to try and finish these accounts I'm doing and then phone some estate agents.
    Really feel that my life is over at this point in time and wish I was brave enough to down all my prescription. (don't worry - I really won't).
    Guess I'll bounce somehow.

    :grouphug: Bookie.. I know it seems awful to have to sell the house but if it's a solution and helps you to move on then try to see it as just that. You'll get there - you are getting there x
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Bookie why are they saying you have to sell the house? Will your income not cover your mortgage/loan?
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    neither do I really bookie, except the barstewards who gave you the loan in the first place need to be sectioned.....
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Gemmzie
    Gemmzie Posts: 14,876 Forumite
    It is annoying Lou and yep I've said !!!!!! off Squizz and started talking about his oral fixation (he's a smoker) and his problem of being in love with his mother :rotfl:

    Sorry to hear that bookie. It's not the end of your life, there's another side and you will get there.
    No longer using this account for new posts from 2013
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Feel a bit better today Lou. Should be OK to go back to work tomorrow - at least it's nice and warm there ;)

    Bookie, look at it the other way hun. When you've moved and settled somewhere else, debt gone you'll be able to start living again :grouphug:
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    And you will probably get help with rent etc...
    Will there be anything left in the pot once you have paid off the debt?
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • bookseller1980
    bookseller1980 Posts: 7,924 Forumite
    Estate agent coming Thursday morning
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Bookie, remind us of the figures involved again hun.
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
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