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Reformed shopaholic? please can you give me the benefit of your advice

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  • NGlady
    NGlady Posts: 1,046 Forumite
    I look like PC plod in a Hat lol.
    Learning to be 'good with money'
  • morocha
    morocha Posts: 1,554 Forumite
    Hi, ya...
    it was a big spent day for me yesterday.. went to the Clinique accounter and the lady told me about my skin.. she tried to sell me products for £91.. i kindly said no.
    i came online, find out that all what she tried to sell me shouldnt be used all together ( she tried to sell me the 3 step thingy and 3 products to treat redness-but one was not in stock... total £91)..
    tried debenhams online to have a look.. managed to get the 3 products for £56 (the items were reduced) delivery included.plus a free gift ( 1 lipstick.1 gloss and mascara)if they have it in stock, hopefully they will.

    I am happy, i liked the way the products she tried on my face, ( redness solutions) made me feel... this is the first time i spent so much on 3 products.. but let's hope it works... i will have to stop looking at the body shop glitches and i will beable afford these with no problems :rotfl:
    Mejor morir de pie que vivir toda una vida de rodillas.
  • NGlady
    NGlady Posts: 1,046 Forumite
    Oh YAY you've found something you like on your skin Morocha :) I think a lot of us need to get into your mind set, stop the £2 or £3 here and there on glitches and things we "musst have" (Anybody else feel they need to carry something around in a shopping centre to feel involved :S ) and buy investment purchases.
    Learning to be 'good with money'
  • saverholic
    saverholic Posts: 161 Forumite
    NGlady wrote: »
    (Anybody else feel they need to carry something around in a shopping centre to feel involved :S )

    I feel really guilty if I spend time looking around and then don't buy something. I feel like I've wasted their time. Plus I get this nagging fear that they think I'm shopping lifting

    (I've never shop lifted in my life so I don't know why I'm so paranoid about people thinking that)
  • NGlady
    NGlady Posts: 1,046 Forumite
    Yes I get that paranoier, in the shops local to me, there quite small. So I worry, if I go look in quite often they will think im a shoplifter, or somebody who cant afford there stuff and look down at me. Im bad to the point, if i look at something, then want to go back and have another look at it the same shopping trip i worry that there staring at me :s
    Learning to be 'good with money'
  • morocha
    morocha Posts: 1,554 Forumite
    me too, i feel the same... this lady had all the products ready for me to give her my card and pay for it. I couldnt, first i needed to read reviews and think if it was ok to spend that kind of money.

    i had redness for 4 years, since i moved to the UK. And i knew i needed something, but creams seems so expensive.. that i kinda always thought.. "this one is cheaper and will work".
    I could not believe it when she put the cream in my face and i had a red cheek and the other one so not red !... i thought i really need this, stop being cheap for once in my life hahahhaha.
    I am glad i finally boufht a cleanser, a cream and a green based spf cream for my redness... a little bit will go a long way ... and hopefully my skin will improved.
    Mejor morir de pie que vivir toda una vida de rodillas.
  • NGlady
    NGlady Posts: 1,046 Forumite
    Yep exactly morocha, a large investment at first but if it lasts say 6 months, thats only about £2.30 a week, so if your in love with the product, loose a magazine/chockie bar a week and put the money into a tin, come end of product life if you still love it, it wont be an outlay again :)
    Learning to be 'good with money'
  • Anglea
    Anglea Posts: 7,209 Forumite
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    Hi girls,

    Morocha, I'm glad you found a cheaper way of getting the same products - plus the freebies!

    Why we don't buy investment items - Imagine the scene - buying 3 good quality expensive items instead of 30 misfits :) We'd be desperate to buy something after five minutes as we probably miss all the dramas and excitement of browsing, choosing, changing our minds, comparing prices, thrill of taking it home.

    I think the addiction is the actual act of shopping, not whatever we are buying.
  • CompletelyLost
    CompletelyLost Posts: 2,862 Forumite
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    Morocha - I definitely think it's worth paying a bit extra for something you love, rather than buying lots of cheaper products that are just 'ok'. I got some Clinique anti-redness makeup base in a swap and I LOVE it. I think I will be purchasing it once I have finished this tube.

    Which reminds me, I have a ton of Clinique minis to list on ebay. I've been looking to see how much people are selling them for, and some are going for crazy prices (these are things I got for free with a purchase).
  • morocha
    morocha Posts: 1,554 Forumite
    yes, Clinique is quality.
    In debehams the SPF cream is £13 i think, and the cleanser £12, cheaper than on ebay. I checked them on ebay too.
    if you buy products for more than £22 i think you get £5 voucher in your beauty card and the clinique freebies ( so bought 3 products for £50( counting Quidco aswell, next time if i need more spf cream, that will cost only £7)... i am NOT trying to sell items to you, i am just trying to help if you need to buy new ones as they can be expensive.:)

    I will stop being cheap with my face and buy what i need., the same counts with clothes, good fit and quality instead of hundreds of cheaper products/clothes.
    Mejor morir de pie que vivir toda una vida de rodillas.
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