Reformed shopaholic? please can you give me the benefit of your advice

Frogletina

Anglea wrote: »

He was so secretive about himself that I spoke to a private detective as I thought he must be married or have something else untoward going on

I feel like this doing this sometimes. I'm beginning to lose patience with men who say they can't wait to see you again but don't make any effort to make any arrangements. I do keep wondering what else is in their lives. I know people have to make a living, but life is not all work.

I do tend to trust people, but maybe I should be more circumspect.

Anglea

Is this for the muse and BYM?

Frogletina

Anglea wrote: »

Is this for the muse and BYM?

Yes, it applies to both of them.

Anglea

I don't know how you put up with them FR

Frogletina

Anglea wrote: »

I don't know how you put up with them FR

They are both really nice. I'm happy to still be in contact with both of them - frustrating though it can be at times, I cannot imagine being without either of them.

Anglea

Is that because you don't have anyone else that gives you the relationship you deserve?

Something I always meant to ask you - what is the origin of your username?

Frogletina

Anglea wrote: »

Is that because you don't have anyone else that gives you the relationship you deserve?

Something I always meant to ask you - what is the origin of your username?

There are no other men in my life, I haven't met anyone conventionally and dated for years - not even had the opportunity to say 'no thanks'! Besides 'the muse' and Bym, I've only had holiday flings.

I think I may be better off with men who want no commitment and/or will give none. I put everything into my last long term relationship, only for it to fall apart leaving me devastated and emotionally wrecked.

My ex-partner called me froglet, as a term of endearment, and my username is a variation of that.

Anglea

I've just noticed one of your earlier posts FR strange because it didn't appear on my screen before - the one to CL.

I have to ask - are you into collecting frogs that's why you got that name from your ex?

Like you, I find talking on here very easy and wish we all lived nearby. Can you imagine the nights out? we'd all have so much fun.

Frogletina

Anglea wrote: »

I've just noticed one of your earlier posts FR strange because it didn't appear on my screen before - the one to CL.

I have to ask - are you into collecting frogs that's why you got that name from your ex?

Like you, I find talking on here very easy and wish we all lived nearby. Can you imagine the nights out? we'd all have so much fun.

I wonder what happened to my message, very odd.

The name had nothing to do with actual frogs, I think it was because I am just 5ft, and it began when he gave me a card when I was in hospital and he wrote on the envelope, 'To my baby froglet' and it continued from then.

Imagine if we did all meet up! I expect we all have an idea of what to expect, but I guess there would be a few surprises. I never have 'girly' nights out, I think I am seriously lacking in the fun department.

Anglea

Baby froglet thanks for enlightening me, I had been wondering for ages about the name. I thought it might be either a hobby or the name of a film or book character like Thumbelina.

I don't have girls nights out either.

As to what we'd expect, Ziggles to shock us in a Per Una cardie

I was thinking of Ziggles today as I read about someone finding a loose tooth with fillings inside fudge and they only got a 68p refund. it might be one way to lose your cravings.