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  • wendz86
    wendz86 Posts: 7,171 Forumite
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    So sorry Part Mouse, hope you are doing as ok as you can be and you have lots of support xx
  • Metranil_Vavin
    Metranil_Vavin Posts: 5,025 Forumite
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    Part Mouse there really are no words.

    So sorry x
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Thanks not doing so good,care was awful,bleed a lot and had to stay in still bleeding. They were ment to book my in for surgery on mon but they didnt,gave me something to open my cervix and then didnt even know if they were going to operate yesterday :( so spent the day nil by mouth with no iv fluids till i go to theatre at 6 and wasnt sure if i was going to pass the baby before i go there.Awful justawful experience. In a lot of pain now and didnt give any pain killers :( one nurse was horrid :(
  • skintchick
    skintchick Posts: 15,114 Forumite
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    Oh PartMouse that sounds utterly traumatic on so many levels. I'm so sorry you recevived sh..itty care and hope you can begin to heal now. I'm still praying for you xxx
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  • Metranil_Vavin
    Metranil_Vavin Posts: 5,025 Forumite
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    It sounds dreadful. Are you going to complain?
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    That wasn't even the end of it :( I doubt I will complain spent to long doing so for various reasons. Im totally spent now :(
  • sweaty_betty
    sweaty_betty Posts: 1,337 Forumite
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    I'm so sorry PM. As if the circumstances aren't enough without crap treatment. If it helps to write things down, do so. That way you can decide whether or not to complain when you're feeling stronger.

    I really hope that physically the worst is over soon and you're out of hospital. For everything else, be kind to yourself. You've had a dreadful time.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Betty I don't have anymore fight to give :'(
  • Morganarla
    Morganarla Posts: 709 Forumite
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    Do you know what I hate about this thread?

    That there are so many of us here, so many of us that know the pain, so many of us that know the pain over and over again.

    I don't usually post, but I have my own losses (see sig). My heart breaks every day for them, and I wonder who they would both be now. I see my empty arms, and I see others, my cousin, my sister-in-law, my other cousin, with their arms about to be filled, and I am angry. I am insanely jealous. Why not me? Why do I have to bear this pain every single day of knowing that I have two lovely little babies who's faces I never got to kiss, never watched grow up?

    Love to EVERY one of you, including those that might read and empathize but don't post.

    xxxxx
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Morganarla wrote: »
    Do you know what I hate about this thread?

    That there are so many of us here, so many of us that know the pain, so many of us that know the pain over and over again.

    I don't usually post, but I have my own losses (see sig). My heart breaks every day for them, and I wonder who they would both be now. I see my empty arms, and I see others, my cousin, my sister-in-law, my other cousin, with their arms about to be filled, and I am angry. I am insanely jealous. Why not me? Why do I have to bear this pain every single day of knowing that I have two lovely little babies who's faces I never got to kiss, never watched grow up?

    Love to EVERY one of you, including those that might read and empathize but don't post.

    xxxxx


    Im so so sorry for your losses,im very much at the stage of why me,why do we have to suffer this pain.

    One nurse said atleast you managed to get pregnant,yes after 7 years with a mix of ntnp and ttc and 8 rounds of treatment only to have a mmc:mad: why does life have to fCking suck sooo much.
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