Miscarriage support

ttc39

any_name_will_suffice wrote: »

Really fed up today.

My next door neighbour has come home with her newborn today. I am over the moon for them, they experienced a mc before this one, and she was great throughout mine. But I am bitterly jealous. And it doesn't help we're in terraced houses, so I know there will be sounds from the baby travelling, which if I am honest is not what I need to hear.

I think I had another early mc this week. I haven't seen the GP, and I haven't told OH, because I actually don't trust him not to tell me to give my head a shake or something. Although knowing how badly I mc, I probably will have all sorts of problems in a week or two. Mind you, I didn't even take a pg test. We're not meant to be trying until
I have had a colposcopy.

Oh, and I have thrush.

Will have to ask OH to pick me up some wine on his way home

Oh Hun, it's understandable you feel carp, hopefully you will feel ok and not have probs like before if it was another mmc xx big hugs xx

please-let-me-be-lucky

Sorry to hear you aren't too good any name, hope the wine has helped.

Hope you are feeling better again now Rosie.

I think I'm ok today! It's my eldest's 9th birthday and whilst I realise I'm lucky to have him, thinking about the day he was born has made me realise again what I've lost with the miscarriages.

Still waiting to hear from hospital re tests on the twins.

Over did it today and I'm shattered now. Hope everyone else is ok Xx

rosie_78

when are the results due PLMBL? will you be able to have an early night? get some well deserved rest? xx

please-let-me-be-lucky

Any day now Rosie, although part of me thinks that if the hospital say 3 to 4 weeks, what they really mean is 6-8weeks!!

I'm off to bed now. Hopefully will feel better again tomorrowXx

ttc39

Morning all
Hugs to everyone that could do with one.

Gosh I'm glad it is Friday! And I have only done 4 days! Lol knackered!

Samtobys news has encouraged me and I hope all of us.. Xx

sophiasmum

Morning - Im shattered too. I "only" work 4 days a week - but tbh Friday is not a day of rest for me, what with shopping, cleaning and running around after the children!
So pleased for SamToby - really nice to hear some good news and I wasn't affected by it as much as when its in RL if you know what I mean! Pleased for Sam in her situation x

tea_lover

rosie - really glad to hear you're feeling a bit better. Hope you're still resting and taking care of yourself x.

anws - big hugs. Hard isn't it? You're genuinely pleased for people, but at times it's all just too in your face.

Hope everyone has a good weekend planned x.

Lara44

Glad you're feeling a bit better, Rosie.

Big hugs Any Name.

Hope that you get the results of the testing soon Plmbl xxx

I am feeling a bit down as just read that OH pain medication for his arthritis lowers sperm count and affects the ability of the sperm to fertilise the egg. We had been trying since last Oct and got PG the month he was off them. Scared about what that means for us now.

please-let-me-be-lucky

Can you see the GP about that Lara? Xx

samtoby

Evening girls. Long day today but glad its the weekend. I just have to make another week then I have the Dr's. I am so nervous.

Lara- Might be an alternative surely? I do hope you are getting on ok with your Phd. I have my sign in for uni on Thursday, I am very nervous but its a two year course and I am hopeful I will be able to keep up. I wasn't thinking I would be in this position at all but I don't want to stop it and tempt fate. I know I might sound silly but I feel more comfortable with that.

Hope you are ok Tea lover and also have a nice weekend.

Thank you Sophiasmum - I was scared about saying the situatuion as I know some people have not had a BFP and others are trying for some time after a miscarriage.

tt39- hope the week at work has gone ok. I also hope your BFP won't take long, I hope that for everyone. The feeling I had in that scan room at 12 weeks was unbearable and I really would not wish that on my worst enemy.

anws- As I was leaving the hospital after my operation I bumped into someone who was pregnant. Everywhere I look still people are pregnant. It still hurts especially as I know someone due on my due date of my miscarriage. There will be picture reminders on the book of all faces and meetings - this person is a friend. I have to be happy for her. Sometimes you just wish anyone pregnant or with a baby would just leave your ear and eyeshot (hope it is still ok that I am coming back here to talk!)

PLMBL - I do hope you have some news about the twins. I hope I haven't missed that you have already.

Rosie78 - Rest up and if the bleeding gets any worse you must think about contacting the Dr or hospital you really are suffering.

Eastenders in a minute and I am totally sad and am really enjoying it at the moment. So I must go. And OH wants dinner like an hour ago!

xx