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please-let-me-be-lucky

samtoby wrote: »

BadlyWrittenPoem - I guess time is a healer. It is a reminder though. And that hurts. Sorry you have had to feel the same with dates and friends being pregnant.


PLMBL - Do hope you get some results soon. And an AF or a BFP! xx

Totally agree re dates. Date of my LMP before BFP was 23rd May. My DH's last seizure was 25th May, so the weeks went hand in hand. I had to stop counting at 12 weeks pregnant but DH is still going. He doesn't mean to upset me, but when he announced excitedly "16 weeks since my last seizure!" Yesterday, I wanted to cry. Obviously I don't want him to have another seizure, but I wish the weeks hadn't been the same. It's a constant reminder.

I don't think I'll get a BFP as we agreed not to try again until we had all the tests and results. That said, not trying just meant kinda avoiding ov time which I think we probably did. I'd love to be pregnant again but worst possible scenario would be to already be pregnant whilst being told I won't carry a baby without prior intervention. It would be like waiting for a bomb to go off .

Sorry, I'm waffling this morning. It all sounds much clearer in my head! Xx

Toooldforthis

After my first and second losses I had one AF and then fell again (both losses were around 7 weeks) after the 3rd loss at nearly 13 weeks in early may I havent fallen. Dunno if that food or bad !! We had some tests which said there was nothing wrong but we ourselves haven't been tested .

please-let-me-be-lucky

Why aren't they testing you TOFT? I was told it was automatic (as long as you agree) after 3 mcs. I'm waiting for the results on the foetuses and placenta, but I already have an appointment for tests on me in October.

I'm sorry it's taking longer for you to fall this time Xx

Lara44

Gosh it's just such a rollercoaster, isn't it.

Hugs Rosie, for your Dad's visit. Sometimes our Dads are not very good at handling these things.

Big hugs to you PLMBL, try not to worry and I hope your cycles behave themselves soon. My DH says try not to worry until things actually happen which is good advice, but I struggle to take it myself.

Hope you had a nice night out TTC.

Hugs to all xxx

Toooldforthis

please-let-me-be-lucky wrote: »

Why aren't they testing you TOFT? I was told it was automatic (as long as you agree) after 3 mcs. I'm waiting for the results on the foetuses and placenta, but I already have an appointment for tests on me in October.

I'm sorry it's taking longer for you to fall this time Xx

I don't know ? Maybe as im over 40 they put it down to your age ? They never offered or mentioned tests on me or OH at all . Just said no abnormalities and to take junior asprin if I fall again .

ttc39

Hi all
Had a good evening , didnt realise how long we were there till got in car to come home - was 12-40!! Was there from half 7!

How has everyone's day been? X

samtoby

claire16c wrote: »

Lara I got pregnant much quicker the second time I was really shocked as assumed it would take ages.

I would 2nd that now obviously - think it is something to do with your body knowing how to do it. Just the first hurdle of many though. And for some its the falling in the first place.

samtoby

ttc39 - Glad you had a good time - back at work tomorrow?

Toft - Really surprised they have not offered you tests?
What does baby Aspirin do?

Lara44 - Hope you enjoyed your weekend?

PLMBL - Sorry you have a reminder of how many weeks. OH's bosses partner was a week behind my last pregnancy. He struggles with that as it reminds him. I keep assuring him its our time this time

AFM - back to work week from hell Winchester tomorrow, Bristol Wednesday and Cambridge Thursday - good job I have Friday off!

xx

ttc39

Hi Sam, yep , I went back last week so have to be in work again today :-) mind you I am just in the office this week, your working week sounds manic :-( hope you don't have to rush about too much.

Sunny this am which always makes me feel better. Just wondering when I will get my first proper bleed, so that I can start tracking again..

Hugs to all xx

ttc39

Hi all, quiet here today,

Hope Rosie,Lara and PLMBL are all ok xx