MSE Parents Club Part 10

tarajayne

Maddy's got her 7mth check next week, so will get her checked then. It's been weeks!

money_maker_3

Right I am watching the plus hour of OBEM and seeing the baby in the inci and her talking about being jealous of everyone else feeding and she cant even touch is exactly how I was ... worst few days of my life Am now sitting here is tears, but feel weird, as I am just relieved he is home and not going through that anymore

tarajayne

money_maker wrote: »

Right I am watching the plus hour of OBEM and seeing the baby in the inci and her talking about being jealous of everyone else feeding and she cant even touch is exactly how I was ... worst few days of my life Am now sitting here is tears, but feel weird, as I am just relieved he is home and not going through that anymore

I'm watching too, it's so different seeing this after actually being in NICU!

money_maker_3

Oh 3, I seeeee you

How did the transport yesterday go back at school ?? I was thinking of you at home time.

searching_me

mm ((hugs)) .... it made philip go upstairs and just look at jayden .. stuff like that just really makes him thankful .. hes very intouch with his feelings (one of the things i really love about him ) x

money_maker_3

When we were there, there was one very very very poorly baby whos mum was never there when I was. I couldnt understand why any mother could not go and visit their sick baby ... And then I met her in the cafe one day and introduced myself as I had saw her in with the baby before I went, and chatted away to her. She had twins, and one was sent to the Royal in Belfast and the other in Antrim, so she had to travel between 2 hospitals nearly an hour between them to see both the babies How hard would that be ?? Never felt as sorry for someone in my life !!
By the time Dylan was going home, she had got them both together in Belfast, so it didnt last too long, but I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for her

money_maker_3

tarajayne wrote: »

I'm watching too, it's so different seeing this after actually being in NICU!

I have never been in a more scary place in my life. it is non stop alarms and beeps and nurses ushering you out to do tests and things

searching_me

poor woman mm .. i hate to have my kids split like that x

Krystaltips

I just blarted through OBEM... Apart from with ignorant bloke... I had a few choice words to say about him to hubby... He was even worse than p1ss taking bloke the other week! I did feel for the pair of them though when the baby was taen off and wasn't breathing well, I couldn't imagine how bad that must feel...

Hubby's just doing the dishwasher... I need to clear the sides and the sink in the kitchen for when the window fitters come tomorrow... No idea what time they're coming but the bathroom blokes are coming back at 8:30 :eek:

tarajayne

money_maker wrote: »

When we were there, there was one very very very poorly baby whos mum was never there when I was. I couldnt understand why any mother could not go and visit their sick baby ... And then I met her in the cafe one day and introduced myself as I had saw her in with the baby before I went, and chatted away to her. She had twins, and one was sent to the Royal in Belfast and the other in Antrim, so she had to travel between 2 hospitals nearly an hour between them to see both the babies How hard would that be ?? Never felt as sorry for someone in my life !!
By the time Dylan was going home, she had got them both together in Belfast, so it didnt last too long, but I cannot imagine how hard that must have been for her

My Brother and his wife, they lived in Dawlish with their 2yr old. One twin in Exeter 30mins away and one in Bristol 2hrs from home! Not enough beds in one hospital! He drove her and her expressed BM on a round trip nearly every day!