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MSE Parents Club Part 10

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  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    jillie sorry to tell you but you generally don't get after pains with your first but they can be killer 2nd time around
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • GISI - You may have to make your choice at 36 week appointment. If you choose the elective they will then give you a date for section at 38 - 39 weeks. They won't let you go to 40 weeks. But that said if you went into spontaneous labour before the given elective date, (as i did) they will again give you the option to go for an urgent section or VBAC. I suppose if when the elective date came round you could then change your mind again and say you want to wait and try a VBAC, because no one can make you have the section.

    Thanks- I hadn't thought of that. I'd be happy to be booked in at 38 weeks but would probably try for a vBac if I went naturally.

    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    does anyone know why 'they' do elective c/s 'early'?
    I would think (as a random not medically trained person) that it was best to do it as close to due date as poss?

    As csh and MFD have said, I would imagine it is to avoid as many as possible planned c-sections becoming emergency c-sections because labour had started. Do planned sections require less personnel than EMCS? Just wondered as it felt like there loads of people at H's birth, considering neither of us were in immediate danger.

    Mad to think that I could be a pregnant a month less with #2 than I was with H!
    :DYummy mummy, runner, baker and procrastinator :p
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    jillie sorry to tell you but you generally don't get after pains with your first but they can be killer 2nd time around

    Then they get worse with the third! :eek: :o

    We're off out. Want to take Jasmine a pressie when I meet MM, so we are off Fossil Hunting! :D
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • :DYummy mummy, runner, baker and procrastinator :p
  • csh wrote: »
    Damn, forgot to say arsed in my last post! So did you MFD!!!

    It's in white :cool:



    Although I couldn't be arsed to put it in first time around!!!
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
  • jillie1974
    jillie1974 Posts: 6,997 Forumite
    started playing farmville...its a bit addictive lol!!
    'Children are not things to be moulded, but are people to be unfolded'
  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    As csh and MFD have said, I would imagine it is to avoid as many as possible planned c-sections becoming emergency c-sections because labour had started. Do planned sections require less personnel than EMCS? Just wondered as it felt like there loads of people at H's birth, considering neither of us were in immediate danger.
    Would they actually be "emergency" or just urgent? If going into labour is expected to create an emergency then they do them at 37 weeks to avoid that. (Or at least they did with my cousin's wife who had placenta previa and I would assume it is standard practice.)
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
    2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
    "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die"
  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    It's in white :cool:



    Although I couldn't be arsed to put it in first time around!!!

    LOL I knew it !
  • cazscoob
    cazscoob Posts: 4,990 Forumite
    after pains are worse the more you have!! i thought they were worse than labour?
    What's for you won't go past you
  • Off to referee another scrap on site...if the b00gers can be arsed to turn up.

    Will be back later...if I can be...



    ...bothered :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:


    MFD
    xxx
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
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