MSE Parents Club Part 10

feelinggood_2

tarajayne wrote: »

But why would you do that, it's like saying that the two groups shouldn't mix, but they should. It's just that one side think they're perfect and one side know they're not. And the not side are much more accepting! I read the B.Mummies thread with interest, as many of us on here fit quite well with some of the comments but I consider myself a very good Mummy and will confidently tell anyone that!

Who has ever claimed to be perfect?

fairydawn

Tara, my thoughts are with you all, and I am glad to hear all bodily functions are working. x
MFD and SS sorry to hear OH's have been so ill, I hope they mend quickly for you. x
Happy Birthday PP.x
FG, much love sent to you as I know it is all so hard. xx
Oscar is now awake 10pm - 9.30 am, must have worn him out yesterday.

tarajayne

feelinggood wrote: »

Who has ever claimed to be perfect?

It is how when reading, as I sometimes do for days at a time without posting, some posts come across. I don't think it is intentional or meant in that way but some have more time on their hands then others, so those that are busy end up feeling like they don't do the right thing by their child. I posted my thoughts after many weeks of feeling it, not to start a discussion but it is not in my nature not to speak my mind. It is my opinion, nothing more and I don't like any bad vibes I have to fester. I've said my bit so that I can move on. If it's not acceptable for me to have such an opinion I will leave the thread!

searching_me

im ready early (well ive got 10mins) ...

tara i agree with your comment .. although i dont think they thnk they are perfect but they are told it by mw, hv, docs well anything in the profession that they are .. my sister is a training mw and she drives me MENTAL!!! in the end i had to say .. my child now sod off if you're not happy ...

thanks for the good luck everyone ..

oooo and tara saw your status .. well done poppies your gene are definately made of some strong stuff ..

dont leave i like (i would say love but that sounds abit lezzy) you being here x

feelinggood_2

tarajayne wrote: »

It is how when reading, as I sometimes do for days at a time without posting, some posts come across. I don't think it is intentional or meant in that way but some have more time on their hands then others, so those that are busy end up feeling like they don't do the right thing by their child. I posted my thoughts after many weeks of feeling it, not to start a discussion but it is not in my nature not to speak my mind. It is my opinion, nothing more and I don't like any bad vibes I have to fester. I've said my bit so that I can move on. If it's not acceptable for me to have such an opinion I will leave the thread!

Thanks for explaining, I appreciate it.

got-it-spend-it

searching_me wrote: »

we're going MH as town is pants and MH dont offer an online option so going to go down and just ask and hand in cvs ... the old fashion way ...

cant stop gotta leave soon but im no where near ready .. also who wants my son hes been moaning on and off since 3am i think his teeth are upsetting him ..


*stronger vibes* to poppie ...

Happy birthday pinkpig xxxx

Hi SM. As a retail manager can I offer a tip? Anywhere that takes a CV and shows some interest, give them a ring in a couple of days to remind them and offer to come in for a chat/interview. I sometimes get handed dozens of CVs a week, but if someone follows up with a phonecall I'm always very impressed and it reminds me to invite them in as sometimes these things end up at the bottom of the to-do list on a busy day.

Yay for Poppie's poop!

I don't think there's any way to split the group in two- we'd end up with a thread each if we did that since we all have our own styles and views on different things, and all with differing strengths of conviction.

feelinggood_2

fairydawn wrote: »

Tara, my thoughts are with you all, and I am glad to hear all bodily functions are working. x
MFD and SS sorry to hear OH's have been so ill, I hope they mend quickly for you. x
Happy Birthday PP.x
FG, much love sent to you as I know it is all so hard. xx
Oscar is now awake 10pm - 9.30 am, must have worn him out yesterday.

Lovely to see you FairyDawn, I miss you when you don't post. You are lovely.

Thanks for thinking of me, I appreciate it. In a bit of a pickle really, not sure what to do.

I'm certainly not a perfect Mummy, and don't think I am, otherwise I wouldn't be tempted to walk up to a complete stranger and ask them to take my baby away, because I don't want to do it anymore

searching_me

GISI thank you any tips and help is gladly taken x

Glamazon

3onitsway wrote: »

I saw , and liked and thanked you.

Have you heard from OH?

I too liked and thanked your thread Sami

Happy brithday Pinkpig _party__party__party__party__party_

SM - good luck job hunting

Tara - YAY for poop and don't leave the thread missus

I certainly don't think the thread should be split - how on earth would you do it?! Plus I'd miss you all too much - if we were all doing the same thing then life would be boring!

Susan - I am really sorry you are leaving for a bit. As I said in my PM to you, I think you are always really fair and non-judgemental in your posts on both this thread and that damn other thread! :mad:

MFD - Hugs to you, hope DH has a swift recovery - ditto to Sugar :grouphug:

I need to be out the house in an hour and I'm still in bed! Jack woke at 3am AGAIN so I spent an hour getting him back to sleep (don't want that becoming a habit!) and then he woke at 5am for a feed but was very chatty when I put him back to bed so I didn't fall asleep til 6am even though I put the monitor on mute :shhh: Then OH was up at 6.30am and Jack woke at 8am YAWN :shocked:

searching_me

right i really do have to go .. you lovely lot i can never seem to leave you you lttle minxs :rotfl: ... hope you all have a good day and i hope poppie goes from strength to strength xxxx

edit: glam sympathise on the 3am wake up call .. god bless make hiding my bags today xxx