MSE Parents Club Part 10

3onitsway

redmel1621 wrote: »

Right without turning us into the preg thread I went for scan and am very happy to say everything is perfectly fine and I was worried over nothing! Apparantly placenta is anterior which is why I have barely been feeling movement, phew! Baby was a flasher too;):D

Mel x

:j:j:j Wow Mel - i'm shocked too! :j:j:j Brilliant news - will you know what to do with a pink one?


Tara That's absolutely dreadful! Like your DD doesn't have enough to deal with at the moment. :mad:


Only popped on breifly before sorting out dinner. Will be back soon.

searching_me

go for it tara its a disgrace ...

:rotfl: weezl x

weezl74

feelinggood wrote: »

I saw that!!

How are you doing Weezl?

no! you saw nuffink, right?!

I'm ok. Bit grumpy and stressed, but I think that's a bit how I am in pregnancy .

How're you lovely?

feelinggood_2

weezl74 wrote: »

no! you saw nuffink, right?!

I'm ok. Bit grumpy and stressed, but I think that's a bit how I am in pregnancy .

How're you lovely?

I'm okay, sort of. Very hard to explain. I'm sorry I'm not my usual (albiet sad) self. I don't really know who I am at the moment I'm full of energy, I'm angry, aggressive, irritable, paranoid and allsorts.

elle_gee

Good Lord! OH was just eating HM flapjack and let Rhys lick the corner. It kept him quiet for a good few minutes then he roared and roared when OH ate it all! :eek: He literally turned his whole head red with the screaming

Becles

Rang doctors back and no chance of any earlier appointment unless I develop new symptoms that need urgent attention

I feel more down now than I did this morning.

Charlotte and Jack ran away while I was talking to a lady on the field and vanished into thin air. I found them in the play park which is hidden behind tree's so you can't see it from the field, and there's a gate on to keep dogs out, but she'd shut Jack in with her so he couldn't come when I was calling him.

James is playing up because I don't want to go to his assembly tomorrow. He's not even doing a reading or anything in it. He'll be sat at the back with a laptop moving the powerpoint slides on. Yeah - cos it's really worth cancelling some work just to see him repeatidly pressing a button. I wish they gave more notice of assemblies and stuff, so parents could organise work and stuff so they could attend.

weezl74

feelinggood wrote: »

I'm okay, sort of. Very hard to explain. I'm sorry I'm not my usual (albiet sad) self. I don't really know who I am at the moment I'm full of energy, I'm angry, aggressive, irritable, paranoid and allsorts.

I think I know what you mean, a bit like suddenly feeling all (how I imagine) testosteroney feels if you are a bloke.

Society doesn't really like women being angry so we have fewer outlets! Grrrr feelie, let's go and play rugby together, grrrrrr!

I write long rants anti-consumerism and challenging the government's views on subsistence when I feel like that, on my diary thread on MSE

Sounds hard that you don't recognise this you, that must be a bit unsettling . I hope she can become a useful part of your mummy repertoire. I was just thinking of the way that Tara is so skillful at activating her mummy tiger self to defend DD and DGD. I know you'll be fab at doing that for Tobes

Sami_Bee

oh Becles can you sneak off for a relaxing bath or something? can you speak to your mum about things? xxxx Big hugs xxxx

weezl74

Becles wrote: »

I feel more down now than I did this morning.

hugs for Becles.

I wanted to say to you this morning but couldn't quite word it, that I thought you said something important when you said you feel like a single parent.

The thing is that if you were, you would probably be offered more support by others to do uni, work and all that you're doing every day.

And I just wonder if C could maybe hear and respond to that. That you feel alone in all this, but no one helps because they see you as having him, but you don't feel like he's fully there for you sometimes.

I know he is a good man though and you love him, so it's not a criticism, just I wonder if he has fully seen how alone you are?

xxx

Becles

LOL - the bath is in the garage! Busy refitting the bathroom and it's just an empty room at the moment.

My Mam went back to work yesterday after her hols. Someone is sick and someone else broke her leg and will be off a long time, and the other secretary started her holiday yesterday. Mam went back to a pile of doctors letters that need typing up and an even bigger pile of responses that need attaching to patient notes. She's having to work loads of overtime to catch up and she's pretty peed off about it, so I haven't said anything to her.