Trying for a Baby part 5....

QQuaver

oxclairexo wrote: »

.you have a 20% chance each cycle if you BD regularly.

Feels a bit like a lottery:D

oxclairexo

QQuaver wrote: »

Feels a bit like a lottery:D

Better than winning the lottery though so worth hanging in there x

gratefulforhelp_2

Iainsmum come on PMA! I think I'm as old as you.

sammygirl did you buy your CBFM from legs' linky? *stamps foot* I ordered it first and mine hasn't come yet.

QQ if you haven't given in yet, I would hang fire, there's bound to be one going second hand. eta that sounds horrible and I didn't mean it to, you prob won't even be here to need one!

MV when I got my last BFP it was BD every day after AF pretty much. Bit of anecdotal evidence!!

Tabatha_Kitten

Thanks for the support and the positive vibes everyone.
When I say that this is month one of TTC I'm not really being entirely honest.
This is month one of "really trying."
I came off the pill 4 years ago and we haven't exactly been being careful since. I guess we were thinking we would just let nature take its course. If it happens, it happens !
Time is now ticking, Im getting broody, and obviously it aint gonna happen that way !

fantafan

Welcome MrMoon. I think you're the second bloke on here in as many weeks...girls have you forgotten Simon already???

CD7 for me. No req to do a pee test on the CBFM..... MV I had peak at CD19 and had a 30 day cycle last month.

I have question... as me and DH haven't DTD in a couple of weeks (since we argued), will he be a good spermy person or will they be pants or bad swimmers? Only reason I ask is that when Dr Christian on embarressing bodies had a test, they said he was low because he had bonked 3/4 days previously.

Am I just living in hope???

fantafan

ps. Peter Kay...went for the second time to warm up gig last Saturday. Bury Met had the good idea to allocate seats... arrive early, get your seats then go off for tea. We got row G and turned up just before 7pm.
No interval, he went straight thru this time and a polished performance!

Enjoy

gizmodo_2

Evening, I've not got much time - madly trying to pack and get washing done for tomorrow. We've got the tent out and we've decided upon a few days up north near Alton Towers and a few days near Bournemouth.

Our flight isn't officially cancelled yet, but I'm sure it will be.

I'll be gone for a week...I hope to see lots of BFPs when I get back. When I get back I'll be a few days away from AF arriving, so at least the 2WW should fly by.

Good luck everyone who is due for a BFP in the next week. And keep BDing to those coming up to Ov!

Metranil_Vavin

Evening.

Have a good break Giz..hope the weather stays nice.

Not going to BD tonight as I'm feeling totally shattered, as does OH. Still seem to have a bit of residual AF hanging about too (TMI,,soz).

I figure that as its only my first 'high' CBFM day it wont matter too much.

Not sure re your question FF. I think after a certain amount of time it may be good for him to 'clear the tubes' for want of a nicer expression!..OH and I havent BD'd for a few weeks either, so will prob treat the next time as a clear out..I think I read every 2-3 days is a good amount of time for swimmers to be at optimum health

FairyShazza

Hope you have a good break Giz wherever you end up going. Hope that if you go camping the weather will stay fine for you

Fantafan - even though you and OH haven't dtd don't forget that doesn't necessarily mean his swimmers have just been sat around. There is a chance he may have released some of his own accord if you catch my drift. I think the optimum is to leave about 3 days to let the swimmers build up but no more than 10 days as this will affect their effectiveness - thats what it said when OH did the home fertility test he brought.

QQuaver

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

QQ if you haven't given in yet, I would hang fire, there's bound to be one going second hand. eta that sounds horrible and I didn't mean it to, you prob won't even be here to need one!!

The problem is that I'm not in the UK at the moment...:o
CBFM are very expensive where I am:( So I could order one in the UK and get my family to send it here, or I could wait 'till June. Dilemma, dilemma....