Trying for a Baby part 5....

MERFE

mennie wrote: »

COngrats Starjump!!!

Yeah I have had some tests. I have been tested for Lupus Anticoagulant, STDs and we have both had chromosonal abnormality tested

Everything has come back fine.

OH hardly drinks either, maybe 3 drinks a month, he has also cut out caffeine. Although his diet is good, it could be better.

The things we do eh???? I am looking forward to my taking charge of your fertility book arriving. I am just desperate for that BFP.

Sounds like you are doing as much as you can, I'm about to go through all the testing but not expecting it to show anything. Not sure if OH will still want to try after as he is worried about it happening and wants to know why it keeps happening. Good luck x

Tinks hope the counselling is good for you x

Big congrats starjump, loads of sticky dust for you x

tinkwings

Congrats Starjump!! :j looks like you're preg then!

tinkwings

So just back home again after my session & then running around!

WOW what a session it was today there were lots of tears which I am seeing as a good thing. She didn't work on TTC reflexology today more getting me back together :T It was hard work to go through but feel it has helped so that must be a good thing.

DH is nervous about me seeing the vicar again!!! Last time we saw him i called him a hypocrite :eek: as he refused to marry us in his church (he marries divorces couples but not in his parish) as I have been married before but turned around and said he would bless our wedding for the same fee:eek::mad::mad::mad:. DH wanted to get married in the church as it is where we buried his father last year and it is the village church where his parents live and he grew up. This is why we got hitched in October and are having the blessing in April.

Oh well means I get two dresses & two rings and two big days & two honeymoons!!!:D

Also worked out that I will OV on the weekend of our blessing so we could have a 2nd honeymoon baby!

StarJump

Thanks for all the congrats ladies. It is much appreciated. You've all helped me so much during the last few months - even tho I only de-lurked this week!

Babydust to all, xx.

QQuaver

MERFE wrote: »

I'm about to go through all the testing but not expecting it to show anything.

I wish I knew the reason of my mc, and how to prevent it from ever happening again:(

daleigha

CONGRATS STARJUMP!! :j:beer: Lucky duck!! Wouldn't be fab if all it took was delurking to get a BFP!!?!??!

It looks like it's been a bit quieter for the last day or two in here.... thank gawd, it didn't take me half the night to catch up!!

tinkwings - tears are good - let it all out - it can only help. I'm uber jealous about the two weddings thing.... we got married in Sept and I'd love to do it again!! Tho every time I say that to DH he reminds me about how skint we were paying for it!! Defo don't want to do that bit again lol!! Are you having a big party etc after? Will people bring more pressies!?!?

Welcome mennie :j sounds like you are doing all the right things.... I wish I could quit the cigs and that would be me sorted.....promise to have my last one the day I find out I'm preggers :embarasse it's sooo hard......

DH was waffling on about taking multivitamins so might have a wee nosey at the mums and dad to to ones I've 'heard' some of you talking about in Tesco next week - any recommendations?

OMG QQuaver - the thought of my dad thinking I put anything up there is traumatic!! :eek:

Anyway, another uber-post from me....waffle.... have a nice evening girls!!

Dxx

MERFE

hugs quaver, I wish I knew too. I'm going to be so devasted if after 3 mc they do find out a reason and there is something we can do about it because of the unnecessary loss but also relieved that we know. I'm not going to expect any answers though. I have my car back now so will be going for the fasting blood test at the hospital on monday.

gizmodo_2

@starjump - congratulations!!!! :j

Finally CD1 for me (2nd cycle). I was in sooo much pain last night I did not sleep and spent most of the night in the loo. I called in sick today and I feel rubbish for doing so but it's just agony I'm not sure I can cope with months of this

I saw my psychosexual counsellor today. I don't have to go back as me and OH are DTD thanks to all her advice. She's signed me up to a vaginisimus clinic for if I ever need help in the future I can just get an appointment without referral.

She also reassured me about giving birth, she assures me that everything 'down there' is perfectly normal like other womens and that my body will prepare itself just like anyone else Made me feel better anyway

I had a look out for dad-to-be vitamins, but they didn't sell them in asda Will try boots or superdrug next week.

Sammy_Girl

Giz - yay for AF showing, I think? But sorry you're feeling poo. I hate the first couple of days. But a nice new cycle for you to be getting on with. Are you going to use ov sticks?

Merfe - hope the tests go as you want and hopefully you will get an answer to help. Big hugs.

Tinks - I called the reflexology place this afternoon and left a message so hope to get a session booked in for early next week. What do they do exactly? And how long does each session last?

Sorry if I've missed anyone out. In the bath. Again lol x

QQuaver

gizmodo wrote: »

She also reassured me about giving birth, she assures me that everything 'down there' is perfectly normal like other womens and that my body will prepare itself just like anyone else Made me feel better anyway

Yay!:j

I had a look out for dad-to-be vitamins, but they didn't sell them in asda Will try boots or superdrug next week.

Sanatogen ones are sold at either Boots or Tescos (or online).
There might be other brands though:)