Trying for a Baby part 5....

nunnygirl

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:think:Waiting Room (for TLP to turn BFP):think:
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Billeybobberyl


I've created a waiting room for tlp to turn bfp, hope you don't mind:p

I don't like the new "waiting room"

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but (and please virtually slap me if you think I am out of order) tlp do not always turn into BFP, we've had someone posting on the thread get a tlp before and it not turn into a BFP

I just don't think it's fair the way you have labelled the room "waiting for a TLP to turn into a BFP" I feel it is getting peoples hopes up and then having them extremely upset when they tlp does not turn into the BFP they were expecting.

I understand that the way I have worded that may be a litttle harsh and that it one of the mian reasons I am leaving now, I am not coming back (more to do with personal reasons), but I just feel I needed to get that in before I left.

moleymoo, can you take me off the front page pelase as I feel I do not belong here anymore

Lauralou

Hello everyone

I agree with what nunnygirl is saying. I feel it may cause unnecessary upset to someone who gets a tlp but then AF turns up, i would hate for anyone to become upset, TTC is upsetting enough without giving someone falsh hope. (Hope no-one takes offence but i just had to say it).

twinklie

Awwww nunny I will miss you. Hope you're ok honey.
I have to admit, I'm starting to feel out of the loop again. I'm such an attention seeker. I'm just finding it hard to keep up with everything (although not the last 2 days or so) and don't feel like I know everyone anymore.

I know thats nobody's fault, but I guess I have issues with change. It could just be me being overly emotional (AF is in the process of arriving). And now I feel like my "crew" are all starting to drift off and not for the right reasons!!!

It's funny how you seem to have a bond with people that have been trying a similar amount of time or where particularly helpful when you first joined the thread.

Sorry ladies, I'm not having a go at anyone...I'm just feeling a bit lonely I guess. But then I don't really have anything to say either.

Congrats on the bfp's.

Primmer

Sad to hear that peeps are leaving the thread. We are all ttc whether new to this thread or not and hope we can all support each other x

twinklie

On a less moany and more ttc note... looks like my cycle has finally regulated itself to a 28 day cycle! How random. I thank the CBFM!

I've run out of sticks though which is a bit upsetting....need more before next week.

Lauralou

Thanks twinklie you have summed for me what i have been feeling, but i have found it hard to find the words.

I think im just feeling rather 'out-of-place' ( i know a few girls who are going through what i am at the moment and i really am grateful that i have you here-hope you guys know who im talking about!, if not ill tell you!!)
I think im also just feeling a bit distant from everyone, as this month isnt a good one regarding TTC.(today would have been my first edd and one year off trying).so its not the best time for me right now.


And i really wish i could feel so excited with TTC like the rest of you are but dont know but just feeling like i am no longer 'needed' (Hope everyone understands what i mean, im never any good at finding the right words!!)

Now i am sorry if my post makes no sense!!

twinklie

Glad it's not just me Laura. I think you have a more understandable reason than I to be a bit out of sorts. I'm just a grumpy mare I think.

I'm not remotely excited about ttc anymore. However, I'm still loving my cbfm. Oddly I'm not using it for ttc at the minute but more for interest in what the heck is going on with my body!!

stef240377

Oh can i step into the 'i want attention corner im not myself' please.

I have religiously read the thread every day as per usual but as im at a loss as to where i am in cycle, i dont know when to expect af after mc or when to test i feel that whatever i type is meaningless and liek im having a whinge instead of being part of this little community if that makes sense?

becs

Hi Lauralou, Nunny and Twinklie and any other "old timers" lurking! I pop by to read occassionally but I think you pretty much summed it up for me too Twinklie. The thread has gone in another direction and as it's not a direction I'm keen on I decided to bow out gracefully.
Just my twopenneth worth though before I really do finally disappear again as I think it really has to be said. Whilst positivity is indeed a real necessity when TTC I think that egging others on whenever they mention any "ailment" as pg symptoms is just not right. Whilst I have been lurking on here there have been many who have been led to believe by other members that the symptoms they are experiencing are pg symptoms only to come crashing down when af arrives. I think for everyones emotional wellbeing some restraint is really called for. As for testing early it really is the absoloute pits! If you have a look on the internet you will see that testing even 4 days early it will be highly unlikely that the test would be positive so not very mse! I think the rate is something like 90% of pregnant women will receive a bfp on the day their period is due.
A tlp is also far from a guaranteed bfp as I'm sure many old faces will agree having had them in the past and they're either faulty tests, evaporation lines or chemical pregnancies. TTC is a hard and testing emotional journey for many and I feel that encouraging early testing and symptom spotting only leads to even more unnecessary heartache.

twinklie

Maybe we can just have our own little moany corner....until we are back on our feet. I'm wondering if I've got issues. I don't fancy anything for tea but need to eat.

Lasagna, sheps pie or pizza. All homemade and ready for cooking...just can't decide which to actually have.