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The giving up/cutting down alcohol thread part VI

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  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
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    I took the plunge
    I jumped in
    I dived in and told everyone........












    I'm not going, no no no
    I'm not going!

    What they said, why not?
    I'm a sad old lame boring cow I told them
    and in reply ahh that's a shame

    and it was all over and done with :D in a nice way too! Maybe I built it up more in my head than in reality ;)

    Would be a laugh but very heavy drinking related so need to give it a miss and I know others aren't so keen too but can't be bothered with a faff of an hour's travel both ways so here we go on an FAFF

    Back laters for a dvd watching and curry for tea and declaring an AFF while craving wine - won't give in won't give in won't give in........ and I've already eaten a wispa and fancy another one :o

    Must remember the AF feeling which is nice on a Sat morning when I wake up!
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
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  • Marru
    Marru Posts: 4,126 Forumite
    I have my own take on this. I don't know the ages of most on thios thread but I think it may be relevant. I think that when you are young and alcohol is seen as part of your social scene it is easier to deny any 'problem' The younger ones you mention may just be 5 or 10 years away from realising that they may indeed have an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. In my 20's i was a total !!!!head but as most of this drinking took place in pubs and clubs where most of the other people you are mixing with are also on a bender you can justify your own drinking more...along the lines of 'everyone else is doing it so why shouldn't i' It's only, for me, that my lifestyle changed due to being a mum that my drinking became more in the spotlight. Drinking alone at home as opposed to being out. I think while you are young and don't have any responsibility it is easier to write of your drinking as 'having a good time' It would be interesting to see if any other people on here were party animals before they had their kids or have found that their drinking habits started later in life. I'm aware that all sounds a bit garbled...hope it kind of makes sense.

    Completely with you. In my early twenties it was work hard, play hard. It was easy to slip from there into drinking home to relax, when upset, as reward, any excuse really.

    Hi Little_h and welcome2.gif

    No BF this weekend :( and DD's Godmother has cancelled our visit to her again :mad:. I am starting to think that she doesn't really want to see us. Been running - I was flying on Wednesday but today it was tough going.

    Car parked in garage DD will go to bed promptly so I aint going out again tonight so that makes it 29 for me please HB.
    "Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, it's not the end."

  • jo1972 wrote: »
    Did you know a blue whales penis weighs about 22lb......

    Yes i do from bitter experience....

    Sorry...couldn't resist
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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Having a very bad night so far, looks like DD and OH arent going out, I wont be getting Chinese and my Virgin has gone off, no telly, phone or internet. Pah
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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    bloomin hate using phone for internet cos everything takes so long and i cant read stuff properly arrrggghhhhhh!!!!!

    How am i meant to delight you all with verbal diahorrea if i cant log on properly :mad:
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • Lurkio wrote: »
    So do I, but I couldn't eat a whole one :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Evening All .... Just popped in and read that .... nearly spat my tonic water out :D

    Hope everyone is OK.

    Will have a read later when my laptop has charged up again ....the lead doesn't reach as far as me :rotfl:

    BHB
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • Dizzyduck
    Dizzyduck Posts: 211 Forumite
    Hello all

    Sounds like everyone is in a good mood tonight even if there are trials and tribulations!
    Honey bear - I've hit my target of 10 AFD - wayhey :T but not AF tonight.
    Not been posting as the first "depressed Monday" lasted two weeks for me and didn't want to bring everyone down :(.

    Thank you for making me laugh and sorry the verbal diarrhoea from Jo is about to dry up! :rotfl:
    An Ewok and a gold star HB? (don't want to be greedy but.....!)
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
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    Declaring AFD 17 now after a big curry and 2 glasses of pepsi so the cravings have gone :T

    Oh well finish watching Andrew Marr then onto a DVD and hot choccie

    Party on!
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Dizzyduck wrote: »
    sorry the verbal diarrhoea from Jo is about to dry up! :rotfl:

    Oh if you're that sorry, I could try with my phone connection :rotfl:
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    well done sparkles *claps*

    Hiya BHB :wave:
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
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