depression

geminilady

Miroslav wrote:

Disaster - probably never see her again. Even Flatmate is very annoyed with her, she said nothing of what she said to her yesterday, and even flatmate is considering walking away from her.

aww big (HUG) Miro,sorry it did not go well,will wait to hear what happened but maybe she did not say anything to you because she is scared.It is one thing to tell a girlfriend things but another to say things to your face.She DOES like you,yesterday you were sure of it remember?

geminilady

feelinggood wrote:

Oh Miro, I'm sorry. Nothing I can say really, hope you feel better soon.
Thinking of you, I'm about for a little bit more, so hope we can talk later, or I'll email you tomorrow xxxx

Hi FG,How are you? are you still of the cigs and drink? hope things are going well for you.

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

Oh Miro, I'm sorry. Nothing I can say really, hope you feel better soon.
Thinking of you, I'm about for a little bit more, so hope we can talk later, or I'll email you tomorrow xxxx

She just said she wants to be friends - going totally against what she said to my flatmate.

She said she had a small feeling for me, once a week was enough to meet as she's really busy (balls!) etc etc

I can't really say what she said - it's all the usual rubbish.

She's now saying she only had 1 relationship, when before it was 5.

I got annoyed with her. I was really honest with her and told her that sometimes she wasn't the only one with problems etc etc

I wasn't rude, but i'm fed up with her me me me attitude and so is flatmate.

People warned me about her, and I didn't want to believe it.

I care so much for her, but tonight I was more forward with her, with what I was saying, and she didn't like alot of it. She made me very frustrated, and I can see why people move away from her.

I didn't say what I really really thought, but she needed total honesty and not just a pat on the head.

I'm fed up with her lies, her selfishness and her bad manners and so is my flatmate.

I'm sure alot more happened and i'll remember it when i've calmed down.

I know it's not me, but why can I not attract someone nice. It's always tarts, players or severely damaged.

I don't mind baggage, but someone who can at least tell the truth once or twice a year would be an improvement.

:mad:

feelinggood_2

geminilady wrote:

Hi FG,How are you? are you still of the cigs and drink? hope things are going well for you.

Thanks Geminilady
Still off the cigs and drink - I'm strong, and I know I can do this
Feeling happy - past few days have been really nice. One thing I have to do is to learn to recognise when people aren't nice, and break contact. I'm only going to allow nice people in to my life And i'm back on the diet
How are you? x

Miroslav

geminilady wrote:

aww big (HUG) Miro,sorry it did not go well,will wait to hear what happened but maybe she did not say anything to you because she is scared.It is one thing to tell a girlfriend things but another to say things to your face.She DOES like you,yesterday you were sure of it remember?

I'm so angry. She treats me like poo, plays with my feelings and then blames me for taking them the wrong way.

I explained she shouldn't say things if she doesn't mean them, and she just shrugged her shoulders.

I'm sure she does like me, but i'm going off her fast.

Why me? Why oh why did I end up with the local weirdo

feelinggood_2

Awww Miro <<hugs>>
Really sorry things haven't gone as you'd have liked tonight.
Can't answer why you can't seem to find someone right for you, sometimes we just can't. Don't give up though, you'll find someone for you xxxx
Nice guys like you don't come along every day - a special lady will recognise how wonderful you are xxxxxx

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

Awww Miro <<hugs>>
Really sorry things haven't gone as you'd have liked tonight.
Can't answer why you can't seem to find someone right for you, sometimes we just can't. Don't give up though, you'll find someone for you xxxx
Nice guys like you don't come along every day - a special lady will recognise how wonderful you are xxxxxx

I'm too nice. Too caring, too kind and people take the p!ss. I'm too nice to be loved, i'm just the local joke - he'll spend money on you if you pretend to like him.

feelinggood_2

Miroslav wrote:

I'm too nice. Too caring, too kind and people take the p!ss. I'm too nice to be loved, i'm just the local joke - he'll spend money on you if you pretend to like him.

Maybe its time to change? I know its easy to want to please other people, and its really sweet of you to care so much - but a genuine, nice girl will want to be with you even if you don't spend a penny on her - trust me xxx

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

Maybe its time to change? I know its easy to want to please other people, and its really sweet of you to care so much - but a genuine, nice girl will want to be with you even if you don't spend a penny on her - trust me xxx

I can't change who I am I kinda like me, even if no-one else does.

I still care about 'S', she has not alot after myself and flatmate...

Her father lives here, but he doesn't know how to handle her, and her sister moved away!

I have no idea what to do

feelinggood_2

Miroslav wrote:

I can't change who I am I kinda like me, even if no-one else does.

I still care about 'S', she has not alot after myself and flatmate...

Her father lives here, but he doesn't know how to handle her, and her sister moved away!

I have no idea what to do

I didn't mean change who you are, just change how generous you are - wait till you know someone a little better before giving them too much. I really hope that your perfect lady finds you soon
And have you forgotten the deal we had ages ago? I've not!
What is it you want to do? I don't know if there is anything you can do - its wonderful that you care, but you've got to look after your heart
xx