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  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    Miroslav wrote:
    I don't know how to not give :o

    Deal? Which deal? Where we would have to settle for each other? :rotfl:

    I want to talk to her. On my terms for once.

    I have to end it properly, if it is to end, but I don't want it too. I want to make sure she's safe and looked after.

    I'm so confused.

    I take it you aren't taking me up on that offer then! :p

    Don't rush in to any descision Miro, take your time- you are entitled to have a proper think before you do anything xxxx
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    Feelie is really tearful tonight, anyone want to give me a cuddle? I need a cuddle lol.
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    I take it you aren't taking me up on that offer then! :p

    Don't rush in to any descision Miro, take your time- you are entitled to have a proper think before you do anything xxxx

    I'd rather crawl back under my stone for a while, take my time and make some decisions.

    But i'll keep your offer in mind. Compared to 'S', sticking pins in my feet would be fun :o
  • I was very tearful earlier, I'll give you a hug!!

    This condition is so hard to explain to people, so hard to tell people about and so hard to live with, I battle with it, people have it a hell of a lot harder and have more bad days than good, I am the opposite luckily.

    I will beat this I am sure! goodnight guys!
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Feelie is really tearful tonight, anyone want to give me a cuddle? I need a cuddle lol.

    *Cuddle*

    Hope it wasn't too tight, my anger and frustration is uncontrollable :o
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    Are you off to bed LTD? If you are, hope you sleep well, will look out for your posts tomorrow xxxx

    Miro - Thank you for the cuddle :) You still feeling angry? :( Wish there was something I could say or do
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Are you off to bed LTD? If you are, hope you sleep well, will look out for your posts tomorrow xxxx

    Miro - Thank you for the cuddle :) You still feeling angry? :( Wish there was something I could say or do


    Anger is slowly turning into teary.

    I still want to be with 'S' I'm not sure if I can though. I really care about her, I really do.
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    You type really fast Miro :)

    There is only so many times you can cope with being let down isn't there. I hope it doesn't come to that. I hope you can find a middle ground where you can both be yourselves.

    My tearfulness is strange - it isn't sad, its happy. I've got lots of reasons to be happy, I just feel a little sad. And I'm struggling to not cry. I think I just need to let it out, shame I can't.

    How if flatmate?
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    You type really fast Miro :)

    There is only so many times you can cope with being let down isn't there. I hope it doesn't come to that. I hope you can find a middle ground where you can both be yourselves.

    My tearfulness is strange - it isn't sad, its happy. I've got lots of reasons to be happy, I just feel a little sad. And I'm struggling to not cry. I think I just need to let it out, shame I can't.

    How if flatmate?

    I do type fairly fast :)

    I think if we can get through this, we'll have to settle for friends, although i'm not sure it will happen. She hurts me too much, yet the good times are fantastic!

    I'm glad you have happy tears! You deserve to be happy.

    Flatmate is more interested in CSI - she is annoyed with 'S' though - she has helped both of us, and 'S' has let us both down.
  • kronas
    kronas Posts: 408 Forumite
    i think i can safely say its time to move on, if she is a habitual liar as you said she is then no point going there, if she has problems like most if not all of us in this thread do then she should have the common courtesy to tell you to your face about why all of a sudden she wants to be 'just freinds' im not being overtly critical its not nice to be messed around.

    oh and miroslav i concur on you about being nice, i too am too nice for my own good, a person can treat me like s**t and if he or shes needs help ill go and do it, i have times in the past where i have felt 'used' by the behaviour of people towards me, yet i still go back and help them, not to be a saint but its just in my nature....

    i also threw a load of money at a girl i really liked once by showering her with gifts and trying to get her to see me as 'relationship material' but that never materialised....
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