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rose07

:rudolf: :heartpuls MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE:xmastree: :xmassign:

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twink

MERRY CHRISTMAS rose, mclaren and everyone :j xx

blinky

Big hugs to everyone

mclaren_2

Merry christmas everyone - twink, rose, tiff, blinky, sazbo, stenny....

Tiff_2

Hi guys!:wave:
I just wanted to wish you all every happiness and peace in your hearts, if only for one day. Couldn't resist coming on and checking in with my adopted family. You are all very special, thank you so much for all you do.:T
And for anyone finding today hard, it's nearly passed - do whatever it takes to get yourself through and find a little slice of happiness. I know our problems don't go away just because it's Christmas - if anything, it can sometimes make things feel worse. So guys, be kind to yourselves. I'm thinking of you all. Bless you all.:grouphug:
Much Love,
Tiff xxx
PS - Go easy on the dizzy water!!!:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

stenny_2

mclaren wrote:

Merry christmas everyone - twink, rose, tiff, blinky, sazbo, stenny....

You toooo and all, happy christmas everyone!!!:xmassign:

Miroslav

Merry Christmas All

Happy Birthday Tiff

What a great day!!! NOT!!!

'S' called at 3.30 to say she couldn't come until 7.30 this evening and couldn't stay long.

Is this normal for an invitee to be so...........ungrateful!?

We have gone out of our way for her as she said she had nowhere to go, and she tells us at 3.30 she would be here at 7.30 in the evening and won't stay long.

Ever so slightly miffed, as we bought extra food and re-arranged our day around her....eating times and what we do etc....

Flatmate says let her come, I don't want her too, as i'm very annoyed with her. Flatmate says she'll assess when she comes, see if she apologises. I just wanted to text her to say don't bother and we'll do it another day.

It wasn't about exchanging gifts, it was about being with someone I wanted to be with.

Right now, she can f.f.f.f.f........go away.

Flatmate wanted another friend to come, but couldn't as 'S' and her clash.....she could have come after all!

Hope everyone's day is going swimingly!

:wave:

blinky

Miroslav wrote:

Merry Christmas All

Happy Birthday Tiff

What a great day!!! NOT!!!

'S' called at 3.30 to say she couldn't come until 7.30 this evening and couldn't stay long.

Is this normal for an invitee to be so...........ungrateful!?

We have gone out of our way for her as she said she had nowhere to go, and she tells us at 3.30 she would be here at 7.30 in the evening and won't stay long.

Ever so slightly miffed, as we bought extra food and re-arranged our day around her....eating times and what we do etc....

Flatmate says let her come, I don't want her too, as i'm very annoyed with her. Flatmate says she'll assess when she comes, see if she apologises. I just wanted to text her to say don't bother and we'll do it another day.

It wasn't about exchanging gifts, it was about being with someone I wanted to be with.

Right now, she can f.f.f.f.f........go away.

Flatmate wanted another friend to come, but couldn't as 'S' and her clash.....she could have come after all!

Hope everyone's day is going swimingly!

:wave:

Sorry to hear your problems. Just let her come, there may be a rational explanation.

Miroslav

blinky wrote:

Sorry to hear your problems. Just let her come, there may be a rational explanation.

Apparently her sister didn't turn up until such and such a time. Shame the time changed 3 times in the same telephone call. I think she's taking the pee out of me.

Flatmate thinks she may be being genuine, but I know this is just the selfish and scatty girl we know, although to be fair, she's like this with everyone, and it's part of her illness.

She isn't coming now, it's too late, so she said she will come around tomorrow and have a boxing day "Christmas Day" with us, which is something, if she arrives.

I'm disappointed, it has ruined my day to some degree as I thought for once, that someone other than my flatmate appreciated me, I guess I was wrong!

However, flatmate and I will enjoy the rest of our evening, still have presents to open.

I think 'S' is just too much for me, as much as I care about her, she's too much hard work! I just wish I had no emotions! On the phone, she told me what she got from her family etc and what she'd eaten etc and had done......as per usual, didn't ask me a thing

I hope everyone is having/had a wonderful day and people remembered you all favourably.

Time for some Gateaux

:wave:

blinky

Miro wrote:

I think 'S' is just too much for me, as much as I care about her, she's too much hard work! I just wish I had no emotions! On the phone, she told me what she got from her family etc and what she'd eaten etc and had done......as per usual, didn't ask me a thing

Don't make any rash decisions. Tell her how you feel - including the fact that she only talks about herself. I think she may do it to help her own insecurities.