depression

EthelBloggs

blinky wrote:

Make sure you keep him to that - don't let him off easy.

Both sides need to work at a relationship. The fact that you don't know if you have what it takes is actually a good thing as it means you aren't thinking too far ahead. I think you probably do as long as he is prepared to put some effort in but who knows what will happen.

I'm not an expert at relationships. Before 'R' it's been an awfully long time since I've been with someone. If you'd asked me in the summer I would have said I would have said I'd more or less given up hope of meeting someone.....

Hiya blinky.. You're right.. it does take two so I'll see how things go. We havent really talked a lot yet.. but he's got the day off today so we'll make some time today to put both our points across and see if we can find some middle ground. I know what my faults are.. I can be uncommunicative and withdrawn, I don't give him much of my time.. but that's cos I haven't had any!! that should only be the case for a couple more weeks tho. I am oversensitive.. I take things to heart that arent meant as harshly as I take them.. and that sends me scuttling off to hide in my corner too. I know his faults too he's quite energetic and does everything (nearly) at 100 miles an hour, which can be misinterpreted as aggression which is part of the reason why I withdraw, he is lazy about the house although we touched on that briefly last night and he promised to help more, he can be quite insensitive and hurt my feelings without realising he does it, and he makes promises and then forgets about them... the positives are that he absolutely adores me, I've never doubted that, and I do love him.. but I'm not very good at showing it, so he gets insecure and ratty and thats where some of the troubles lie.. so we both need to make changes and it wont be easy but the best we can do is give it a try

Phew!! didnt mean to write a novel there... sowwee

Mornin FG, tiffy, everyone else who's about Hope you all have a good day. I'm just having a cuppa or two an then gonna go finish clearing the junk room so b/f can assemble the desk n stuff later for me

EthelBloggs

feelinggood wrote:

Hehe, I think I am a bit manic!

get ur backside over here then.. I've got plenty of jobs you can burn that energy off with, lmfao!!

blinky

Tired ... just want to sleep. Pity I'm at work

EthelBloggs

blinky wrote:

Tired ... just want to sleep. Pity I'm at work

No chance of a skive??

have a huggggggggggggggggggggggle!!

feelinggood_2

EthelBloggs wrote:

get ur backside over here then.. I've got plenty of jobs you can burn that energy off with, lmfao!!

Hehe, I don't know if I'd be much use!
Yes, I've got the energy, but my mind is a million miles away (It is away somewhere very nice tho!) :heartsmil

feelinggood_2

Come on out Sazzy and anyone else who is hiding!!

Sazbo

blinky wrote:

Tired ... just want to sleep. Pity I'm at work

Yeah me too Blinky, and me too again... x

Morning everyone. I'm feeling wrecked. I'll try post something coherent after I've had a cuppa.

Hope you're all doing ok.

Much love,
Sazxxx

Sazbo

feelinggood wrote:

Come on out Sazzy and anyone else who is hiding!!

Jinx feelie hun, we posted together xx

feelinggood_2

Hehe, I saw you hiding
Enjoy your cuppa Maybe I should have some caffine? That is likely to help my manic state isn't it hehe
x

Horasio

Hi

Feeling rough and down - didn't sleep till 6am, up at 10am

Dreading tonight

What is making you manic FG?:D

It is nice to see you cheerful