depression

feelinggood_2

I've send you a message lovely Miro

CCstar **huggles** not much help I know, but just keep reminding yourself that you are going to break away from all this, you are doing the right thing. and you are NOT the bad guy. You are a lovely wonderful woman, and you don't have to take this. Try and ignore it best you can. Thinking of you

Horasio

God talk about eating noises, this person who is really nice, makes the loudest noise I have ever heard. I really hate eating noises and it really spoils the dinner too.

There weren't any noises tonight but he decided to be a clever !!!!!! who doesn't consider me at all. He never has. I feel really tense and wound up.

Well done hubby, upsetting your wife is your forte - your job is done!

blinky

It's a tough one Miro as it really depends on the person. Is she likely to know how much it costs?

I think you're flatmate is trying to tell you not to spend a fortune - I'm guessing they think it isn't the only thing you'll buy 'S'.

The only advice I can give is buy her something she would like and appreciate. Remember it's the thought that counts.

Still don't know what I'm getting 'R' for Christmas either.

feelinggood_2

I've got a thing about eating noises.
And drinking noises. Its one reason I don't like going to inlaws - him and his mum and dad all have tea or coffee, and alot of the time there is no conversation, and I can hear every gulp. Yuck, it just makes me feel so poorly. I know I'm being sensitive. Strange thing is, it only bothers me in certain people - why is that?

Horasio

feelinggood wrote:

I've got a thing about eating noises.
And drinking noises. Its one reason I don't like going to inlaws - him and his mum and dad all have tea or coffee, and alot of the time there is no conversation, and I can hear every gulp. Yuck, it just makes me feel so poorly. I know I'm being sensitive. Strange thing is, it only bothers me in certain people - why is that?

I notice it more in men than women, I think they are being pompous and sneering whilst innocently eating but have to annoy by doing something ordinary that you can't argue with.

I am really hating this weekend with my son being a prat and my husband being one too. Like father like son.

I wish I hadn't had that drink, I can't cope with irritation when I drink:eek:

Miroslav

blinky wrote:

It's a tough one Miro as it really depends on the person. Is she likely to know how much it costs?

I think you're flatmate is trying to tell you not to spend a fortune - I'm guessing they think it isn't the only thing you'll buy 'S'.

The only advice I can give is buy her something she would like and appreciate. Remember it's the thought that counts.

Still don't know what I'm getting 'R' for Christmas either.

She knows as she pointed it out and got really excited, before turning really sad that she couldn't afford it

Well, i'll buy her two things, as well as the joint xmas stocking of chocolate.

I just remember she wanted the bear..............she may have already bought it though..........I guess

Sounds like you and 'R' are moving on nicely, I am so envious

EthelBloggs

Miroslav wrote:

She knows as she pointed it out and got really excited, before turning really sad that she couldn't afford it

Well, i'll buy her two things, as well as the joint xmas stocking of chocolate.

I just remember she wanted the bear..............she may have already bought it though..........I guess

Sounds like you and 'R' are moving on nicely, I am so envious

if you feel like it's too much to give her the teddy just yet.. why not buy it and keep it til it feels right?

EthelBloggs

CC.. you have my sympathy on the eating noises.. my family are italian so you can imagine what that's like!! although there's usually so much talking you dont notice it, lol

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote:

if you feel like it's too much to give her the teddy just yet.. why not buy it and keep it til it feels right?

It's an idea I had not thought of........

So, for Christmas..............hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

EthelBloggs

hiya FG.. I'm fine.. bit nervous as b/f is due home any time now I can feel my stomach churning like mad :eek: weird cos I've no reason to be nervous of him

glad to hear you sounding so positive and upbeat