depression

EthelBloggs

blinky wrote:

Hi all,

only 6 pages for me to catch up on today...

Thanks for posting the mood gym link. I'd heard of it before and it's supposed to be very good but haven't used it yet. Will start looking at it later.

Big hugs to those that need them

Things are going extremely well with 'R' - we both used the 'L' word last night / this morning. :happyhear :kisses2: :kisses2:

ooooooooooooooooooooooo :D:D:D:D:D:D:D I'm soo happy for you blinky :D:D::D:D hope it all goes really well for you both :D::D *hugggs*

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

lol, he wasn't deliberately trying to upset me.. but he hasn't given me my housekeeping money for the month so as far as he knows I'm skint (I'm not) and he's sititng there telling me he's bout this n that an the other n blah blah.. makes me a bit :mad: when he persuaded me to give up my job and that he promised to support me financially and now its like pulling teeth getting cash off him!!

Now he reckons he'll be back here around 7 tonight.. I really don't want him back yet.. think we need longer

Ethel - if you think you need more time, please tell him that hun. It's really important to start putting you're needs first - he certainly isn't. And as for him withholding money from you - I can't trust my self to say something reasonable about that, so I won't! xxx

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

I dont let him know he's done it, lol... wouldn't give him the satisfaction apparently thats part of my problem, I don't let ppl know how I'm feeling.. spose I'm just afraid of making myself more vulnerable if ppl know they have the power to affect how I feel. So I tend to come across as a bit cold and unfeeling I think when really I'm just protecting myself

Of course you are just trying to protect yourself. That is not your "problem". It's just going into survival mode when we think we aren't being listened to or supported. To prevent further hurt.

Sazbo

blinky wrote:

Hi all,

only 6 pages for me to catch up on today...

Thanks for posting the mood gym link. I'd heard of it before and it's supposed to be very good but haven't used it yet. Will start looking at it later.

Big hugs to those that need them

Things are going extremely well with 'R' - we both used the 'L' word last night / this morning. :happyhear :kisses2: :kisses2:

Hi blinky hun, good to hear from you and thanks for the big hugs - always much needed

Great news re R!! :j You deserve to be happy. Keep us posted. Love, Saz x

Sazbo

Gotta move meself peeps. Take washing out of the machine, have bath, get ready to go to folks, blah blah. Don't let anyone tell you I don't lead an exciting life coz it ain't true! :rolleyes:

Have a good day everyone.
Much love,
Sazzy x

blinky

Sazbo wrote:

Ethel - if you think you need more time, please tell him that hun. It's really important to start putting you're needs first - he certainly isn't. And as for him withholding money from you - I can't trust my self to say something reasonable about that, so I won't! xxx

I agree with Sazbo - tell him you need more time.

blinky

EthelBloggs wrote:

ooooooooooooooooooooooo :D:D:D:D:D:D:D I'm soo happy for you blinky :D:D::D:D hope it all goes really well for you both :D::D *hugggs*

Sazbo wrote:

Great news re R!! :j You deserve to be happy. Keep us posted. Love, Saz x

Thank you that means a lot to me.

EthelBloggs

lol, he just transferred £500 - which is the max his account allows at a time. He's just thoughtless.

I didn't answer when he said about coming home and he hasn't said more about it soo... I just dont feel up to confrontations at the moment, u know?

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

Gotta move meself peeps. Take washing out of the machine, have bath, get ready to go to folks, blah blah. Don't let anyone tell you I don't lead an exciting life coz it ain't true! :rolleyes:

Have a good day everyone.
Much love,
Sazzy x

have a great time sazbomb..... dont forget to take the calm down pills to cope with the excitement.. oh.. here have some of mine

xxxxxxx

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

I didn't answer when he said about coming home and he hasn't said more about it soo... I just dont feel up to confrontations at the moment, u know?

Totally understand. Just don't like the thought of you being in an unhappy situation, ya know? big hugs xxx

EthelBloggs wrote:

dont forget to take the calm down pills to cope with the excitement.. oh.. here have some of mine

Thanks hun, I'll be needing them. Excitement's just non-stop here :D

Catch ya later xxx