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  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    it's piddling down here and really cold :/

    just had a convo on yahoo with b/f.. gawd its a waste of time and just brings me down.. dunno why I bother :confused: I feel like !!!!!! now n wish I had ignored him.

    oh well.. off to make another cuppa.. brb, lol
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  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    EthelBloggs wrote:
    it's piddling down here and really cold :/

    just had a convo on yahoo with b/f.. gawd its a waste of time and just brings me down.. dunno why I bother :confused: I feel like !!!!!! now n wish I had ignored him.

    oh well.. off to make another cuppa.. brb, lol

    Aww ethel big hugs, hun. I'm making another cuppa too. Try not to let him get you down too much - I'm sure it's probably what he wants, to think he's brought your mood down - try not to let him hun xx
    4 May 2010 <3
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Miroslav wrote:
    I just don't go in certain area's now. I find 'Discussion Time' a hideout for alot of idiots who are narrow minded etc etc.

    If I do go there, I stick to the positive threads.
    Most people have been supportive on there but had to put someone on ignore as they are argumentative idiots - (SG) is their user name initials - I bet it is a male - those types are so wanting a fight and never see the consequences of their behaviour nor see they are to blame for anything.

    In the dark ages and I have enough of that with my family

    I want to know how to approach my son tomorrow about it.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    I dont let him know he's done it, lol... wouldn't give him the satisfaction :D apparently thats part of my problem, I don't let ppl know how I'm feeling.. spose I'm just afraid of making myself more vulnerable if ppl know they have the power to affect how I feel. So I tend to come across as a bit cold and unfeeling I think when really I'm just protecting myself :/
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    Murphys no more pies club Member #41 :dance:
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  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    EthelBloggs wrote:
    I dont let him know he's done it, lol... wouldn't give him the satisfaction :D apparently thats part of my problem, I don't let ppl know how I'm feeling.. spose I'm just afraid of making myself more vulnerable if ppl know they have the power to affect how I feel. So I tend to come across as a bit cold and unfeeling I think when really I'm just protecting myself :/
    He is in a lather right now I bet and he is on ignore:D

    The silly idiot
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Sazbo wrote:
    Aww ethel big hugs, hun. I'm making another cuppa too. Try not to let him get you down too much - I'm sure it's probably what he wants, to think he's brought your mood down - try not to let him hun xx
    Takes more than an idiot halfwit to do that - see my signature about smart alecs and teenagers!
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    CCStar wrote:
    Most people have been supportive on there but had to put someone on ignore as they are argumentative idiots - (SG) is their user name initials - I bet it is a male - those types are so wanting a fight and never see the consequences of their behaviour nor see they are to blame for anything.

    In the dark ages and I have enough of that with my family

    I want to know how to approach my son tomorrow about it.

    I know who you mean.. I saw some of what he said. He's just insensitive I think.

    Not sure how to approach your son.. I do thnk disappointment in him is a good tool tho and you should milk it for all its worth :D
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  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    CCStar wrote:
    He is in a lather right now I bet and he is on ignore:D

    The silly idiot

    lol, he wasn't deliberately trying to upset me.. but he hasn't given me my housekeeping money for the month so as far as he knows I'm skint (I'm not) and he's sititng there telling me he's bout this n that an the other n blah blah.. makes me a bit :mad: when he persuaded me to give up my job and that he promised to support me financially and now its like pulling teeth getting cash off him!!

    Now he reckons he'll be back here around 7 tonight.. I really don't want him back yet.. think we need longer :/
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  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    CCStar wrote:
    Takes more than an idiot halfwit to do that - see my signature about smart alecs and teenagers!

    hehe I have seen.. and that's how I am outwardly.. but inside it does affect me :/
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    Murphys no more pies club Member #41 :dance:
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  • blinky
    blinky Posts: 1,684 Forumite
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    Hi all,

    only 6 pages for me to catch up on today...

    Thanks for posting the mood gym link. I'd heard of it before and it's supposed to be very good but haven't used it yet. Will start looking at it later.

    Big hugs to those that need them hug2.gifhug2.gif

    Things are going extremely well with 'R' - we both used the 'L' word last night / this morning.:love: :happyhear :kisses2: :kisses2:
    Hug provider for depression thread :grouphug:
    "I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell.." - Unwell by Matchbox Twenty
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