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welsh wrote:thank you all for your help and reasurance (sp sucks) i will start monday and let you all know. have a good day and thanks again :-)
Hi welsh
That's great hun. Thanks for sharing with us. Will be thinking of you Monday.
Feel free to come and hang out any time. Somehow, some kind of way, everything will be all right in the end...(another Tiff phrase!:rolleyes: ).
Be kind to yourself welsh.
Much love
Tiff x"If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.***'You just got Tiffed!'
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She lives in Bournemouth. I want to go somewhere I can afford down south which does limit my options.feelinggood wrote:Do you really need her for the deposit? Is there anyway you could not take her money? I've got to start looking at my options for housing once I find out about the IB.
Where does she live? How far do you want to be from her? Its good that you are aware of what things would be like if you went near her - you can avoid it if you know. Whereabouts down here do you want to go?
Its not nice when people won't listen to you, sounds like you are having to fight everyone at the moment? Remember to take some time out, have a long soak in the bath or something - have some 'me' time.
I could afford something without her money after we sell this by using half my money but worry my husband might play silly games and give up his job. But I don't want to stay with him once we move out.
I do not want to live somewhere where I am very likely to be bullied by chavs and noise. The last three places have been plagued with uncaring noisy neighbours and they are not chavvy places, so I am actually petrified of living somewhere that is too cheap and likely to have chavs, so her money would help me find an area that isn't too bad.
I am going to post on the board about how to cope with a non MS relative. We spent 16 years building his money and he squanders £400 in a months on nothing (he hasn't been home and won't see him till Monday evening to talk about this), so will tackle him about it thenAn average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T
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Sazbo wrote::rotfl: :rotfl: Morning ethel hun. catch ya later xxx
Hi sazzy
What time of day do you call this?!!!
:rolleyes:
How come I always get the early morning shift?!!!
How are you angel? Hope all is well in sazland.;) Have a great day hun.
Much love,
Tiff xxx"If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.***'You just got Tiffed!'***0 -
We have two options how to deal with this
We chuck him out and say live on it and you survive when you run out - and we give him no more. Wash our hands of him.
We insist he gives us his cashcard, so he can only put money in, and rebuild it. He says he has a job but my mother wants evidence of it as she promised to match his earnings on top. He also owes us for setting up his LAN party business.
She is horrified at what has happened.
She bought him a new car this year and paid his insurance for his 18th.
We have all been playing the blame game and I guess we have all contributed but we need to move forward and get him on track and get him to grow up whatever way it takes.
any suggestions as to how to cope with this emotionally and physically would be appreciated.
Many thanks to FeelingGood for your support:)An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
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Tiff wrote:Hi sazzy
What time of day do you call this?!!! :rolleyes:
How come I always get the early morning shift?!!!
How are you angel? Hope all is well in sazland.;) Have a great day hun.
Much love,
Tiff xxx
Hiya Tiffy! Look I'm not a glamour puss like you tiffy hun I need my beauty sleep!
I'm not too bad hun. Hope your doing ok sweetheart xxx
EDIT - Tiff meant to say are you getting any help with the irratic sleeping?4 May 2010
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CCStar wrote:We have two options how to deal with this
We chuck him out and say live on it and you survive when you run out - and we give him no more. Wash our hands of him.
We insist he gives us his cashcard, so he can only put money in, and rebuild it. He says he has a job but my mother wants evidence of it as she promised to match his earnings on top. He also owes us for setting up his LAN party business.
She is horrified at what has happened.
She bought him a new car this year and paid his insurance for his 18th.
We have all been playing the blame game and I guess we have all contributed but we need to move forward and get him on track and get him to grow up whatever way it takes.
any suggestions as to how to cope with this emotionally and physically would be appreciated.
Many thanks to FeelingGood for your support:)
CCStar I'm so sorry to hear about this. Can't they ever give you a break? My feeling is maybe at the moment you don't want the stress of chucking him out - on top of all the stress of packing etc, which really is your number one priority right now. Maybe confiscating cashcard better option? Know it's hard, but try to keep focused on what you're doing to get the life you want and deserve and try not to let them distract you from that. BIG HUGS hunnie xxx4 May 20100 -
I haven't been able to pack today:mad:Sazbo wrote:CCStar I'm so sorry to hear about this. Can't they ever give you a break? My feeling is maybe at the moment you don't want the stress of chucking him out - on top of all the stress of packing etc, which really is your number one priority right now. Maybe confiscating cashcard better option? Know it's hard, but try to keep focused on what you're doing to get the life you want and deserve and try not to let them distract you from that. BIG HUGS hunnie xxxAn average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
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Miroslav wrote:I'll reply from where I left later.
Very low today. Very worried about 'S', want to text her, but no idea what to say
Flatmate and I know she is really low right now, but she won't admit it, so can't say 'Hope you feel better soon, i'm here if you need anything' Poor 'S'
Maybe you could text "Just wanted to say hi, I'm here if you need anything" (or, "Hope you're doing ok, I'm here if you need anything") rather than feel better soon which, as you say, kinda assumes she's not ok.
Gotta pop out briefly, back in a few mins guys. Sxxx4 May 20100 -
CCStar wrote:I haven't been able to pack today:mad:
Not surprising I guess with all that to cope with. Maybe just give you're self a 'time out' this evening, try and do something nice for you, put them out of your mind for a bit and start again with packing tomorrow x4 May 20100
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