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  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote:
    Blimey, I am the same - we are sensitive.

    I know it is difficult, but try and relax, she will do what she wants however you behave. Holding back will also give a wrong impression of you. She may think you are distant and feel uncared for.

    Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh......I hate feelings and being around people.

    But I guess we all get things wrong.

    What doesn't help, is that although my English is pretty good, I sometimes have to go around the houses to get my point across, I'm not so bad when i'm thinking as I type, but sometimes I can't find my words.

    Add to that, she struggles to understand alot of things, and she pre-empts me (sorry no idea how to spell pre-empt?) what I try to say is, she cuts me off and finishes my sentences for me :p

    So communication can be quite bad, and other times, she's off with the fairies!

    In no way can she feel uncared for though, I think I have overloaded her with compliments!!! :p
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote:
    I know it is frustrating.

    OK, there are people worse off than you but this matters to YOU!

    Very true. I guess I want to save the world from all things evil :(
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Miroslav wrote:
    Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh......I hate feelings and being around people.

    But I guess we all get things wrong.

    What doesn't help, is that although my English is pretty good, I sometimes have to go around the houses to get my point across, I'm not so bad when i'm thinking as I type, but sometimes I can't find my words.

    Add to that, she struggles to understand alot of things, and she pre-empts me (sorry no idea how to spell pre-empt?) what I try to say is, she cuts me off and finishes my sentences for me :p

    So communication can be quite bad, and other times, she's off with the fairies!

    In no way can she feel uncared for though, I think I have overloaded her with compliments!!! :p
    Language barriers can be taken the wrong way, tone of voice and clumsy wording can seem worse than it means.

    Communication issues can cause misundertanding.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    It is early days for you both. Time will tell when it is a good time to be reassuring and backing off.

    I am sure deep down she really enjoys being cherished by you.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Miroslav wrote:
    Well, it's not for official release yet. Even though it's a song about a girl ('S') I was kinda hoping to forward it to Britney to sing it :o

    Anyway, Cascada was the other thing in it, a bit of the ketboardey bit was in it, as wanted a dancey thing on the chorus.

    It sounds alot like most things, but a bad version...........by far the weirdest 'tune' out of all the people on the course. Most have done ballads or poppy stuff, mine is really 'alternative' :rotfl:

    You may have my autograph ;) just don't throw your knickers at me as i'm not Tom Jones!....

    And I won't sing

    Baby, take off your shoes. I'll help you take off your shoes. Baby, take off your dress. Yes, yes, yes. You can leave your hat on. You can leave your hat on

    Cos that's just rude :whistle:

    Miro - I'm [STRIKE]jealous[/STRIKE], ahem, shocked! jaw2.gif What have you been on?!redface2.gif
    And don't blame it on the smarties!:rotfl:
    drool.gif Stop drooling young man or Tiff will have you neutered.
    Proper given the Tiff a case of the vapours, he has guvna! blush.gif :rotfl:
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
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  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Sazbo wrote:
    Tiffy hun, you definitely get the award for the most brilliant smileys! :T Not to mention the award for being a wonderful person. I cannot understand the attitude of people towards you re farepak stuff. As blinky says, you were only trying to help. You certainly didn't upset me with what you posted... ?! :confused: Hope Monday is kind to you too, my lovely, will def. be PM'ing you now you've mentioned it (you only have yourself to blame for that one, sorry Tiffy :D ) Much love, Saz x

    Oh Sazzy - how little you know me! insane.gif:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    I got put in an even smaller kennel today by nelski on DFW! Put me right next to a rottweiller - Tiff soon saw that one off!dog.gif :rotfl:
    Thanks for your kind words angel.:o
    Much Love
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
    ***
  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    flis21 wrote:
    Evening all, How are you all this evening? I am quite good, but whoops, drunk again. My parents have been up for the afternoon and we chatted and played games and I did a roast and dessert and drank a lot of wine. Glad I am not seeing doc again till Jan!!

    We were talking and both Mum and Hubby agreed at how much more like my old self I have been recently, which is really nice. I have been feeling that I am getting better, but it is nice to know that other people have noticed as well.

    Anyway, hope you are all ok, hugs to all. Flis

    Good for you flissy!:T You deserve every bit of happiness you can get hun. You should feel really proud of yourself. Take care angel.
    Much Love (hic!) :D
    Tiff
    xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
    ***
  • rose07
    rose07 Posts: 2,442 Forumite
    I am soz to come on here but didnt know what else to do
    my psychiatrist has cancelled tomorrow, she is off ill, my councellor rang me at lunch to tell me, i dunno what to do, i cant cope, she said it could be 2 weeks before i get to see her, what do i do???

    not ok, practically in tears

    I had to come home, i collapsed at work, i pushed myself too far. i am also coming down with something, could be tonsilitis again,

    please anyone got a hug? i dunno what to do

    should i ring my councellor back and tell her i cant cope?

    xxx
    BB B*TCH NO 8
    May your dreams come true and set you free :kisses3:
    Tiff A.S.M 10


  • elona
    elona Posts: 11,806 Forumite
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    Tell counsellor how you feel or even call Samaritans.
    Hang on in there pet.
    "This site is addictive!"
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  • rose07
    rose07 Posts: 2,442 Forumite
    thanks elona

    i dont know what to say to councellor, she is prob busy anyway. one side of me is saying pick up the d*m phone, while another side is just saying no, dont do anything. and its too confusing. everything hurts.

    i dunno what to do.
    BB B*TCH NO 8
    May your dreams come true and set you free :kisses3:
    Tiff A.S.M 10


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