depression

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

Hiya saz... know how you feel bout the tiredness.. I'm the same

got to go to the police station in a min to collect my stolen property :D:D:D

cyas all later xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Thanks Ethel, glad you're getting your stuff back xx

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

:wave: Thanks hun, I'll try. Got acupuncture at 8, so hopefully in bed by ten... I always say that but for some reason it doesn't happen. And I used to be so diligent about going to bed on time. Everything's unravelling at the moment! :rolleyes:



I think you should be extremely proud of your musical achievements. I know I couldn't have done it. I am however rather disturbed about your Sarah comment :eek: She's a floozie Stick with Britney hun x

Have an early night, you spend too much time on here making us all feel better, so tonight, go to bed early for yourself

I am proud, even though i'm poor. At least I did my own song, own lyrics, own 'tune' etc etc.

Sarah is nice to look at, but yeah, I wouldn't want to be with that kind of young lady. Britney is the ultimate........well, her and 'S'

Miroslav

geminilady wrote:

Hi Miro,Just a thought about "S" remember last week you sent her a text asking her not to patronise you? i know she text back saying she wasn't but do you think she could be scared of texting incase you take it the wrong way? I might be completly wrong but you never know.Also why not just text her asking if she is ok and that you are worried about her it may put your mind at rest.

She may be. I am worried I have frightened her off to be honest. Because of the way I say things, not being English, people often take them bluntly, when it's not meant that way

I text her Sunday telling her I was thinking of her and that 'her' song was complete, asking if she was okay etc etc.

She hasn't contacted flatmate either, so it's not just me, i'm just worried we both may have offended her somehow. We posted a card to her, a good luck card, as she was meant to be starting work in a charity shop on Friday. She would have got it Friday, but no news.

Just hope she is okay

geminilady

blinky wrote:

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Geminilady - . I did read all your post and it touched me. I can relate with a lot of what you say. You're definitely right about depression being more than just a chemical imbalance - it's far more complex than that. I have read one site where the people think one reason is we get too much REM sleep - it might help with the neurotransmitter levels but psycological experiences / scars are an important factor in my mind. Glad you've met 'N' and I hope things continue to go well.


Hi Blinky,not sure if i am glad i met "N" or not.Like Miro and "S" he is all i think about and i don't think we will ever have the relationship i would like.I think he just wants us to be friends and is flattered that i like him so much.Also comunicating by text is a strange kind of friendship and it is easy to take texts the wrong way as you can't read facial expressions ect.We seam to have differant senses of humer and it has caused a lot of confusion he likes the wind up kind of humer which i just don't get because i never say anything i do not mean,i have a strange kind of honesty,never lie about anything so when someone tells me something i believe them unless of course it is totaly unbelievable.Also "N" hates questions which is also hard for me as when i like someone i want to know all about them.When we first met online he was going through a bad time and confided in me,was very open about his past and told me quite a bit about himself,but i think he regrets it now as nearly every question is answered with why.What he does not realise is that it was his honesty and vurability that attracted me to him in the first place.I can't do with macho men,men have the same fealings and emotions as woman but very few show it and think they are somehow week if they do.
At the moment he is texting every day sometimes 20 or 30 times,sometimes i think he must like me,sometimes i think he is just playing with my emotions.I suppose only he knows.

geminilady

Miroslav wrote:

She may be. I am worried I have frightened her off to be honest. Because of the way I say things, not being English, people often take them bluntly, when it's not meant that way

Had to laugh at this(see my post to blinky) i do it all the time,take things bluntly its caused me a lot of problems.

Horasio

Miroslav wrote:

She may be. I am worried I have frightened her off to be honest. Because of the way I say things, not being English, people often take them bluntly, when it's not meant that way

I text her Sunday telling her I was thinking of her and that 'her' song was complete, asking if she was okay etc etc.

She hasn't contacted flatmate either, so it's not just me, i'm just worried we both may have offended her somehow. We posted a card to her, a good luck card, as she was meant to be starting work in a charity shop on Friday. She would have got it Friday, but no news.

Just hope she is okay

S has her own issues and copes with them by withdrawing. It isn't a bad reflection on you. She sounds to be a challenge and you will need to be patient with her. You also need to be strong for her, she will appreciate it if you give her the space she needs and be there when she needs you.

We are here to listen when you have feelings of self doubt

Miroslav

geminilady wrote:

Had to laugh at this(see my post to blinky) i do it all the time,take things bluntly its caused me a lot of problems.

I take things the wrong way alot too, hence feeling patronised last week.

I don't want to frighten her away, and I always feel like i'm walking on eggshells, not saying what I fully want to say, just incase she walks away

Miroslav

CCStar wrote:

S has her own issues and copes with them by withdrawing. It isn't a bad reflection on you. She sounds to be a challenge and you will need to be patient with her. You also need to be strong for her, she will appreciate it if you give her the space she needs and be there when she needs you.

We are here to listen when you have feelings of self doubt

She certainly has. I know it's not always a reflection on me, but I get frustrated.

She is a massive challenge, and I will be patient with her, although in private it will be tough.

By going, it makes things even harder.

I know I shouldn't be moaning, as some people don't have any food, water etc in the world, and my issues are all because of past events and a girl who may or may not like me, and I know I go on about 'S' too much, but it's what's worrying me, it's a massive thing for me

Horasio

Miroslav wrote:

I take things the wrong way alot too, hence feeling patronised last week.

I don't want to frighten her away, and I always feel like i'm walking on eggshells, not saying what I fully want to say, just incase she walks away

Blimey, I am the same - we are sensitive.

I know it is difficult, but try and relax, she will do what she wants however you behave. Holding back will also give a wrong impression of you. She may think you are distant and feel uncared for.

Horasio

Miroslav wrote:

She certainly has. I know it's not always a reflection on me, but I get frustrated.

She is a massive challenge, and I will be patient with her, although in private it will be tough.

By going, it makes things even harder.

I know I shouldn't be moaning, as some people don't have any food, water etc in the world, and my issues are all because of past events and a girl who may or may not like me, and I know I go on about 'S' too much, but it's what's worrying me, it's a massive thing for me

I know it is frustrating.

OK, there are people worse off than you but this matters to YOU!