A Payment a Day -Part Seven!

Greenbynature

Big hugs to you Jedi

My DIL and one of my friends had miscarriages within days of each other a couple of years ago and both went on to have babies within a week of each other

Take care of yourself xx

clearing_out_my_pockets

Big hugs to Jedi and all those who need them. :grouphug:

My PaD today is made up as follows:
Credit card: 445.85
Mortgage over payment: 85
Savings: 287.50

Total £818.35

I'll probably post again later with the contents of my purse.

firestronaut

I'm sorry to hear that Jedi, my words won't make much difference to your situation, I know, but just remember the pain doesn't last forever and there will be a time when it doesn't hurt you so badly anymore.



Add an extra 50p to my earlier PAD please.

PigginSkint

Hi All

Back to work today - booooo!

Today's PADS are £1.04, 30p and £1.42 - all to Evil Egg. This makes a total today of £2.76

euronorris

jediteacher wrote: »

Thank you. You've been wonderfully kind.

I am a very practical person and impatient! In most ways I just want this stage to be over so that I can move on and try again. I know people deal with grief in different ways and this is the way that I am.

It is comforting to hear from others who have been where I am now.

So, thank you again.

You are, of course, very welcome. No thanks required

And, I'm the same. I just wanted it to all pass and try again. Unfortunately, at 17, that wasn't an option for me so I had to find another way to deal with it. That pregnancy wasn't planned, but it didn't make it any less painful to deal with (as some at the time believed it should!).

I hope you find some things today, that make you smile, even in the smallest ways xx

Sassers

:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:Just popping on to send Jedi a big (((((hug)))))

and to say I hope you will feel better and more postive soon even though this may take a while.
Big huggles again (and emergency tea and hobnobs xx)
Sassers x
PS; I had an op 18 months ago that meant I can't have children. Until then I wasn't fussed but it took me a long time to come to terms with having no choice in the matter. It has got better with time xxx

psychopathbabble

Thinking of you Jedi... I've been through it although I was too young to fully understand quite what was going on. Take care of yourself, do whatever you need to do to get yourself through it.

Another £18.03 to cc today please.

psychopathbabble

Euronorris, it's interesting you say that.... my mother is rhesus negative but i'm positive. I found out recently that meant I had to have blood transfusions when I was born, and a whole load of blood tests. I didn't realise quite how much of an impact it could have had on me!

jediteacher

Thank you to everyone for your lovely hugs, thoughts and kind words.

On a more positive note this does give us more time to clear our debt and if I do have another little one then it could be a real possibility that I can be a stay at home mum.

Sassers you are very brave and thank you for sharing.

Hugs back to everyone.

mswan

Hi All £1.07 Pad today, change from buying birthday / Engagement cards