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Burlesque Babe bid to stay debt free in 2010

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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    thankyou for all the lovely words.

    I think, for a little while, I need some head clearing time and am going to take some time out of MSE. I need to re-connect with the outside world a bit, I've got far too sucked in to the world of my laptop generally and it's becoming part of my ever increasing insular world that I can't step outside of.

    Just make sure you take care of yourself "out there"...
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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    :wave: just a little one if you are lurking to say keep your chin up and you know where I am should you need anything
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • tenmah
    tenmah Posts: 2,209 Forumite
    BB - I can only agree with what everyone else has said.

    You have taken the first step, but actually it was the hardest bit.

    When my bf finished with me, I was hurt but now having stepped away from the situation, I have thought about the way he treated me and what I would have said to my friends if they had been in that relationship and I can't believe I let it drag on so long.

    I too was worried about being on my own again, but I am so much happier now without the lies, insults and generally being let down most times by him.

    Good Luck and don't stay away too long xx
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  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
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    BB - a big brave step but the right step I think:T:T. If you need inspiration look to Maz and Jinky who have taken the same step and gone on to better times.

    Stay strong, make the most of the space you've made yourself and get out there and show the world the wonderful warm caring strong individual that WE all know you to be.

    As for getting sucked into the lappy - well I have recently asked Hubbles to take my charger to work with him so I can't sit on my !!!! with the lappy all day long:o:o:o
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  • bookseller1980
    bookseller1980 Posts: 7,924 Forumite
    BB I hope it all works out for you. You deserve a better life and I'm sur you will get one.
    You can always come stay with and old granny for a break. x
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Hope you're ok :grouphug:
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Pooky
    Pooky Posts: 7,023 Forumite
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    So do I - check in, let us know you're ok.
    "Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    We miss you :hello:
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
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  • BB.

    Get thine arris BACK HERE NOW!!!!

    *stomps feet in anger*
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,659 Ambassador
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    Cooeeee :)

    Hope you are ok.
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