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Burlesque Babe bid to stay debt free in 2010

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  • :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Big hugs sweetie and well done on being so brave, that took some guts, so very proud of you xxxxxx
  • Pooky
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    If you don't want to go alone then say sod the money - your sanity is worth more - don't go - stay in this country and visit other DFW's around the country.....always a bed here if you want to come stay for a while ;)
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  • beanielou
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  • ZTD
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    It's the Burlesque Babe tour. Coming soon... :T
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  • jinky67
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    BB I am sure someone would go with you, I think loads would jump at the chance if you offered them:cool:
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  • Ellidee
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    BB you have just taken the first step ( MASSIVE I know) on the wonderful journey that is the rest of your life . I am not underestimating how hard and scarey it must seem for you but along with all the other peeps on here who care about you I truly believe that you have 100% done the right thing. Take care and sending you loads of keep strong positive vibes and hugs. XX
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  • Snaggles
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    BB, remember the advice you have given others (okay, me :D) about bad relationships and be strong. Ending it is the hard part, and you have done that now.

    I find being alone scary and lonely sometimes, but ask me if I would go back to Stu, or Dave, or Will...and it would be a huge no. I have felt bloody miserable after each relationship ended, but nothing would persuade me to go back now that I have a little bit of distance and clarity, and can see how I was being treated.

    I know that the loneliness will pass, I know I will be happy again, and I will love again, and I'm not going to give up that chance to go back to the same old same old. You know you have the chance of a happy life and a good relationship with someone else if you stick to your guns now. Don't let fear drive you back to a bad situation. The devil you know is NOT better. Kylie was talking bollox.

    You know where I am xxx
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  • Snaggles wrote: »
    The devil you know is NOT better. Kylie was talking bollox.

    quote of the day..........thankyou for making me giggle......:rotfl:


    And thankyou......to all of you :A xxxx
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

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  • So proud of you BB, not an easy step but you deserve so much better, a chance to shine not be dragged down xx

    ps Snags I think that should be your new sig lol
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
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  • Bang and the !!!!!!! is gone!
    Fantastic flipping news BB, I am so happy for you, you can do what ever the hell you like (especially if it involves kicking him in the nuts) . I just think it is wonderful. A lovely new start with out that foul "person"hanging around!

    Massive Hugs and huge admiration

    Love Buffy xxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
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