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*New Years Eve Daily Chat* Happy Birthday Sally and PAP

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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    edited 31 December 2009 at 7:43PM
    Last new year, Shrek pretended to be ill as an excuse to not be with me on New Years Eve. He let me down and cancelled our plans at the last minute, but I ignored what I didn't want to see. He came up the next day and stayed for two days, meeting my kids for the first time and I was so happy because they got on so well.

    He did all that knowing he had slept with two other people over Christmas and didn't want to be with me. He dumped me a few days later. I hate myself for letting him into the kids' lives. He broke my heart so badly I don't think it can ever be fixed. And that was far from the worst part of the year.

    I need this horrible year to be over. I can't stop crying.

    Sorry to be so miserable. I will feel much better tomorrow when it is all over.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • katsu
    katsu Posts: 5,022 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    So sorry Snaggles. Big hugs to you.
    Debt at highest: £8k. Debt Free 31/12/2009. Original MFD May 2036, MF Dec 2018.
  • Ellidee
    Ellidee Posts: 6,216 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    well I have 2 bottles and then 2 mini bottles.... I lurve mead.......:drool:

    Beam me up ( down :confused:) Scottie :D
    Nothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task. William James
  • Oh Snaggs i`m so sorry to hear that. It can`t be helpful to hear everybody sounding cheerful, like you say New Year New Start, hope you can wake up tomorrow feeling happier

    Hugs xx
    AT LBM 7/1/08 (£24,018.09)- 25/09/11 (£13,032.25) - 26.04.15 - £6,429.70
    LLOYDS TSB CARD £1,168.56 Loan 1LLOYDS TSB £5,261.14
    :j Heading in the right direction!
    Its taking so long......:(
  • Ellidee
    Ellidee Posts: 6,216 Forumite
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    Aww BIG hugs Snaggs - just about to eat but chat on MSN later ? XX
    Nothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task. William James
  • elfen
    elfen Posts: 10,213 Forumite
    Snags, but think. This NYE you're not nearthat idiot, you have your little ones, you have your health and you have us.
    ** Total debt: £6950.82 ± May NSDs 1/10 **
    ** Fat Bum Shrinking: -7/56lbs **
    **SPC 2012 #1498 -£152 and 1499 ***
    I do it all because I'm scared.
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    Last new year, Shrek pretended to be ill as an excuse to not be with me on New Years Eve. He let me down and cancelled our plans at the last minute, but I ignored what I didn't want to see. He came up the next day and stayed for two days, meeting my kids for the first time and I was so happy because they got on so well.

    He did all that knowing he had slept with two other people over Christmas and didn't want to be with me. He dumped me a few days later. I hate myself for letting him into the kids' lives. He broke my heart so badly I don't think it can ever be fixed. And that was far from the worst part of the year.

    I need this horrible year to be over. I can't stop crying.

    Sorry to be so miserable. I will feel much better tomorrow when it is all over.
    b0ll0x to 2009 Snaggs, Are you up for a nice spa day of pampering and relaxation then?
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • Ellidee
    Ellidee Posts: 6,216 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Well done on being debtfree Katsu - fab start to the New Year.
    Nothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task. William James
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Thanks :o know I should be pulling myself together but it all seems a bit overwhelming this evening.

    Linda, sorry, yes, I replied last night but think it was after you had gone. I would LOVE to, thanks so much. Let me know when you are going, and I will do my very best to arrange childcare. :kiss:
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Snags hun he was a complete !!!!!! but its very hard to see that when you are the one involved. Don't be sad about you let him into the childrens life, I doubt very much Tash will remember him and its no different in their eyes than meeting a male friend of anyone.

    2009 is nearly over thank god and I can't wait for 2010
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
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