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Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)
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Hugs for the bad night's sleep. Good that you think you can remain friends with OH, that will make things easier. Stay strong, and remember that you all deserve to be happy in life xDebt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012."I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."0
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Thats what I keep saying to myself Squizz....I know that we will both be happier apart. Although you do always think back to the happy times and imagine it like that again...but It won't happen, Ive tried that before! Once OH gets a job that will cheer him up a bit and he will have more money and be able to take B out to do stuff together which they will both enjoy.
The bit that scares me the most is being without B, if she goes to OH...she really is my life and I will miss her terribly. This is a long way down the line anyway, just need to plod on for now!I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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Keep plodding hun xxI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
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"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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(((Hugs))) Sally xx
You must be in so much turmoil with this. I guess there is no chance of getting marriage counselling and trying to work things out? (ever hopeful Lou:()
Whatever the outcome you are a fantastic Mum and B seems such a happy little girl.But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.0 -
Lou no chance...its over and as sad as it is, I can't keep going back and doing it all over again and waiting for the next 2 years for it to happen again.
Have spoken to him this morning and said that we needed to get things sorted, that I wanted him to be happy and that Its not with me is it?...His reply was Dunno. Changed conversation and carried on. I know he is now realising the reality of his actions and how its going to change his life for ever but I can't stay in limbo land for ever.
Just really want to start my new life...ho hum!
Good news is that I did another 8 mile run this morning
And although B's parents evening last night was a little pointless alls good at school for her and pleased with her progress. Was lovely being able to look through her workbooks and some amazing drawings that she has done.I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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Aw well done B and well done you on the run! :T
Hope you're Ok, it sounds like your mind is made up, if so I hope he realises that and you can both sort things out and move on - 'dunno' is not very helpful!
Have a nice weekend hun xxDebt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012."I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."0 -
redsquirrel80 wrote: »- 'dunno' is not very helpful!
It was all my OH could say too......still is, even after the event!Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)0 -
Dont get me started.
Mine wanted to find himself.
Not sure he ever has:rotfl:I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
Mine spent years getting me to shut up. When finally she needed me to talk - I couldn't."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
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