Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

sallyx

Well thats my dealings with the CCCS finished, can't do a DMP on 1 debt so Im on my own for paying off the remaining £1400 :eek: Now I wonder what Metropolitan might accept as a F&F....

*runs off to phone Metropolitan*

redsquirrel80

Hi Mrs, wow it's just so amazing you're making all these plans.. great that the kids got on well too Must have been a relief to get the phone call to ex out of the way, he must be kicking himself about how stupid he's been.

Good luck with the F&F!

Buffythedebtslayer

Wow, Sal is that good news? hope so. I guess if ex pays maintenance then you could use some of that?

xxx

sallyx

OK Standing order with Metropolitan set up, less than I want to pay really but my plan is to do a F&F and they offered me a 20% discount today so would only pay £1140...now I have £1300 sat in my savings account but I don't want to wipe myself out completely so I think I shall offer them £900/£1000 and see if they accept that. They are hard nuts I think ive offered 4 F&F before and they have refused all of them. R even offered to loan me the money but I don't want to go down that road already!

Squizz I know get me getting all organised and this weekend has been truely fantastic, the kids love each other, R is desperate for us to move in together (as am I) and telling twunty ex and then having chat with his mother last night has relieved me so much!

Onwards and upwards ladies

sallyx

God twunty ex....apparently work is awful and that with now suffering from depression life really is bad, he's thinking of taking a cleaning job as mentally thats all he can cope with at the moment. Well !!!! me maybe you shouldn't have played the field and you'd still be living with your wife and beautiful daughter....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rant over!

So So So So So pleased Im out of that one!

redsquirrel80

sallyx wrote: »

God twunty ex....apparently work is awful and that with now suffering from depression life really is bad, he's thinking of taking a cleaning job as mentally thats all he can cope with at the moment. Well !!!! me maybe you shouldn't have played the field and you'd still be living with your wife and beautiful daughter....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rant over!

So So So So So pleased Im out of that one!

Quite right! Who cares what job he does as long as he pays his maintenance eh x

sallyx

Absolutely Squizz....although the more he earns the more I get....so actually Id like him to get an amazing job and keep Bea clothed, fed and enough money that I can take her out and do nice things!

sallyx

Ahhhhhhh too much red wine last night! Would really like to stay in bed all day today, so tired

think it might be sunny today so must get out the house with bea

Bunnyinthelights

Sal-sorry, no sympathy for XOH,
he made his bed...

sallyx

No I don't have any sympathy either Bun...I won't be made to feel sad, sorry and guilty!